at school, everyone hates me, for no reason. if i go near them, they make it very clear that they want me no where near them. of they accidentally bump into me, they touch the person next to them and say "savannah germs, no gove backs". they call me fat, they say all these really mean things and i never did anything to them at all. i do have a couple of friends there, but i know people talk about me right when im standing next to them. please help!
2007-09-08 08:44:53 · 10 answers · asked by savannahhh =] 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
That's horrible. That's something no one should go through. I'm sorry that's how they treat you. I would try to talk to a counselor or teacher for help. I never really went through this. I just try to be myself around people. I would try to seek advice or help though.
2007-09-08 08:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by F-Baby! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you a child at school, then? Or a teacher? Don't worry about this at all. Nobody accidentally bumps into anyone, ok? They like you but they might be afraid that when they touch you you feel something that they don't feel? If you think you feel more than them, then keep what you feel secret for people you trust. Keep a secret. They always hate that and can't do a thing about it. A smile about a secret (like your favourite tree) usually really gets to the nasty kids. The trouble is you have a lot of things you appreciate in life, including all the kids who are giving you a hard time - imagine how big your heart is! But you have so much to love and they want to know but will never know. Count all the things and people you love and those secrets are things no one will ever be able to steal.
Sometimes some of the nicer kids in school are picked on. I was, in a way, because I was the only black in my school. I was different. And cleverer than most of them! So they go for what's different. I would say, "ignore the ones who behave like rubbish." Keep a secret smile in your heart but don't let them see it! The people of love win in the end - ask me I know and I am 53 years old.
2007-09-08 10:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by tahlasimsim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my thoughts go out to you Savanna, i too was bullied at school, but because my family had nothing. Kids can and are very cruel and those subjected to that cruelty take things very hard, but later on in life you will realise that the only reason for their verbal or physical abuse, is because they had something to fear from you, they too will eventually realise this. As I said I was bullied, but now although I am a confident person, I dont let anyone stand on my toes, but dont give abuse either. You obviously have a big heart, and this is bothering you, so my suggestion is to tell your friends, they should stand at your side and in Scotland would make sure these people were aware of their disgust, if it gets physical, thump them, they'll soon get fed up being hurt. If that dont do it, they're obviously stupid but go to a teacher, and your parents. If all fails, get then individually and warn them that it will be stepped up a level if they continue. Scare them as they are scaring you. God it makes me so angry, because no-one does anything about this, and I wouldn't be surprised if Yahoo disallows my answer, so they cant get involved like the rest. As for getting the folk at school to like you, DONT, you need to just be yourself, if anything it is they who must change.
I truly truly wish you every success in the world and hope you are able to sort this out sooner rather than later. I'm always good at listening so, your not alone.
RAB SUTHERLAND XX
2007-09-12 05:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by robertsutherland1@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you are in this situation. The people who are doing this to you are not the kind of people you should want to hang out with anyway. However, if you are in a small school or something you might not have any choice. I was on the bottom of the social ladder when I was younger but now I am considered very well-liked. It's important to just be nice and kind to everyone and those people who appreciate that will seek you out and be your friends.
2007-09-08 12:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cherish those few friends. It's better to have few good freinds than a big group of friends... that just cause drama. Those people at your school are ignorant. Hold your head up high and show them how much better than them you are. I wouldn't want to be friends with those losers. I hope you have a good year!
2007-09-08 09:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they dont like u then thats there problem u cant get them too pepole should just like u for who u are or they could never even start being ur friend u will be ok friends will come to u just takes a little bit of time
2007-09-11 10:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by karen w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look those losers don't need you for a friend....you wont be gaining anything by having people like that as friends...stay with the ones you do have....do your best to ignore them...yeah I know its hard and sometimes it hurts....but those jerks are never going to accept you as a friend and they are never going to change their ways....schools hard enough without askholes like them making it any harder...keep your head up and try to have a great school year
2007-09-08 10:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In time this will change. It is tough at your age. Think of the worst one and then think of something nice to say about them, and say it to them. This should get them thinking better of you.
2007-09-08 08:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by RB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats how it was at my school. just don't fight back and show that your angry because thats the response they are looking for. but just remember that your not doing anything wrong and its only them.
2007-09-08 09:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
PAy em.
2007-09-08 09:06:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋