I'm ugly. I hate myself,I hate when someone looks at me..I can't even look at myself at the mirror.I have tried so hard to accept myself and to not give a damn about what others think but I can't.
what should I do?
2007-09-08 08:41:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you say this about yourself believe me you are torturing yourself more than others!
I am not saying to fool yourself by imagining you are a wow! but at least give yourself the right to appear satisfied, buy great clothes, pamper yourself ... try to conquer your shallow thoughts of ugly figure to be brilliant in another side.
No one is totally doomed ... just give youself a chance ... I can hear her begging you now.
2007-09-08 08:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Sara007 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some things you can change and have the power to do so....decide what you don't like and see if it's something you can change or not like work out, change clothes, hairstyle, mannerism's, speaking abilities, etc...It's all a state of mind and if you're young, things will change over time. Be your own boss and don't get too wrapped up in what other people think as long as you can be honest with yourself. There will always be people that like to put other people down to make themselves feel better. Bottom line is you have to be comfortable in your own skin and appreciate the person you are. Work on your strength's and best qualities.
2007-09-08 08:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by paul h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fill confedent in yourself and dont let anyone bring you down.
instead of slowching around keep your head up at all times and if someone ever says anything about you thatn just think ,when you grow up you are going to grow up to be somebody and you'll look back on the day that people were talking so much stuff about you and they will end up being the one on the streets. Im giving you the advice someone else gave me because I was the same way and know I work for the government.
2007-09-08 08:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Raven C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar problem. I hate seeing myself in the mirror and I hate how I look. The best thing you can do is try to keep yourself busy. Make friends (who treat you good and makes you feel good) and try to hang out with them in your free time. Just try to keep your mind of the issue u have.
And one more thing, I never met someone whos so ugly you can't look at them. It's impossible to be so ugly that people can't look at you. Some people just look at you cuz they know you have low self esteem and self image issues but just remember: NO ONE CAN BE THAT UGLY. NO ONE!!! not even if you feel like u are..
2007-09-10 16:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by it's_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a girl that is similar to you+read some books on the theme of self-esteem boosting.
2007-09-08 08:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Like 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plastic surgery? I am in the same boat, mate, I just don't have the money. Go and talk with somebody about this, there is nothing worse than being uncomfortable in your own skin. I know.
2007-09-08 08:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one thing, you shouldn't care all that much about what others think. but maybe try to change how you dress? sometimes that helps.
2007-09-08 08:51:11 · answer #7 · answered by superrnat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋