please help guys >i have a frontal lob disability is my ex using me?

Question

i have a frontal lob disabilty i was in a three year relastionship the frist year we went out and had fun the last two years i stared to realize he was making up lies to get me to come over to his house for only a few hours cuz then he had to leave or or he would say we will hang out later we never did then he would say it was just cuz he had a long day and he needed to sleep he would tell me i need to come over before we could go out then i realized we never ended up going anywhere or went anywhere with friends and family even now he asks me to come to his house i stoped going cuz it was getting wired it was also wired cuz he called me his gilrfriend but we never did anything toghther.

Answer 1

Are you allowing him to use you?

Answer 2

A better question is: Are you letting him use you?