what can i do so my girl wont get mad when i say im going with my dad to cut the grass at my other house?

Question

because i told her that my dad told me if u wanna go todady to see u will see her only 3hours and i said maybe tommorow so i can be the whole day with her but i told her that and she told huh dont lie and i toldher yes im going with my dad and she told me then im going to a party i was like u are not going if im not doing nothing bad u so i dont now what to do

Answer 1

Hi,

Why doesn't your girlfriend trust you? Have you lied to her before? What I would do is sit down with her, or call her on the phone and explain patiently that you have to go with your dad. Tell her that you love her, and that she means everything to you (she does, right?) If she still won't accept that, then accept that maybe she's got a little problem.

James :-)

Answer 2

All of the above are great answers. If you really like this girl ask her to come with you to your dads, your dad would understand if you only asked him if she could come for one day. She will more than likely tell you no thanks, if that happens then tell her you don't want to hear another word about it.

If she says ok, put her to work, work her as hard as you can, because of her behavior is why I say work her. If you don't feel like the kind of guy to do that, and she goes and just sits around she will be bored to the core and won't bother you again.

If she is that immature about throwing a "fun time without you" verses "your working on a lawn", I would tell her don't let the door hit her on her way out.

Good luck...you sound like a nice son

Answer 3

I'm gonna follow the format for my answer.

1) If she wants to get jealous of your dad, who cares.
2) Who cares if she goes to a party, what is she gonna do, cheat on you and ruin your relationship because you cut the grass?
3) She's dumb.

Answer 4

If you are being honest with her and she wants to cope an attitude, I suspect that I 'd just go mow the lawn with your father and if she didn't get over it, well, you need to find some that doesn't lay a quilt trip on you every time you need to do something with your family, She's a girlfriend, not someone you've been married to for years.

Answer 5

1. Why don't you trust each other?
2. Let her go to the party if she wants to.
3. Go with your dad.

Answer 6

Just tell her that your not lying and do the lawn with your dad. Let her go to the party and act like its nothing. Shes just testing to see how she can push your buttons and how you will react

Answer 7

if me,i will bring her together to the other house and see for herself whether if it a lie or not.in relationship,i think believing each other is very important so just tell her that.anyway,cutting grass with bring her along does sound gud huh? ; )

Answer 8

Have her come with you to help you cut the grass, pick up the weeds etc. then next time she'll probably be like "Never mind, my nails got all messed up last time."

Answer 9

you guys need to learn how to trust each other. just go with your dad and let her go to the party

Answer 10

Why not invite her along for a bit.