It seems like everyday I do something that I know is wrong and I think about it and feel guilty. Why do I have such a strong conscious? How can I forgive myself and forget about these things. I feel like a bad person.
2007-09-08 05:12:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Kinda depends on what your're doing....If it's just little stuff, don't worry about that. You're human and nobody is perfect! Keep telling yourself that.
2007-09-08 05:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a perfectionist.
Remind yourself that you are human, and that making stupid, hard-headed mistakes is a part of learning. We all go through this, not just you. For example, I just set my condo on fire because I didn't pay close enough attention to an aquarium power strip that was obviously collecting mosture (yes, I knew that something was wrong the day before). Luckily I stoped the fire before it did more than just smoke damage, but using the cold fire extinguisher on the hot fish tank caused it to crack open and flood the lady downstairs with 20 gallons of fish water. We all do dumb things.
Feeling sorry for what you have done is normal, and it is healthy as long as it inspires you to learn from your mistakes and do better next time.
However, it is not healthy to dwell on your mistakes to the point that you are constantly feeling bad about things that you cannot change. The past is over, and you cannot do anything about it. Let the past go, and quit dwelling on it. Focus on the fact that the future will be better, because now you are wiser.
2007-09-09 03:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 05:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry i get that way too i pray to god to forgive me for i no i did something wroung if anyone has the will power to forgive and forget it would have to be god trust me u will feal way better and let it go
2007-09-11 10:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by karen w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is in the question itself. Forgive yourself, and let things go.
2007-09-08 06:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by rev_sara_the_demon_child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like many people, your parents must have rammed that 'guilty for everything' thought into your head.
Meditate and learn to love yourself. You will learn.
2007-09-08 13:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit doing that which you know is wrong, and it will quit bugging you
2007-09-08 06:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by Bill N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋