Sorry if yu think my spelin is bad, i can spell Lol its jus i alwaiz write lyk thiz, itz called slang. K anyway thiz boy asked meh out n i dnt wanna say yes cus i no tht he will want to hve sex wif meh if i do go out wif him n im only 13! but i reli lyk him n im fed up of bein single Lol buh thn agen i dnt think hes mr right..
any ideas on wat i shud do?
Tysm Loveeee JESS x
2007-09-08 04:25:53 · 44 answers · asked by *JessBABY.xo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO, not at 13, save yourself for that special person, who YOU WILL find later.
2007-09-08 04:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you answered your own question.. It looks like you know what kind of a guy he is and that he isnt the one for you.. I think that you also know that if you go out with him then you would be putting yourslef into some bad situations, so if you go out with him knowing that he wantd to have sex with you then it would be your fault.. I would say that if you are not ready to have sex, which you shouldnt be you are to young, and will regret it later, Trust me.. that you should forget about him and try to find a guy that wont want to have sex wtih you.. Somebody who will like you for you and respect you.. Also you are thirteen, these are some of the best years of your life.. Dont waste them away worrying about boys.. Enjoy being single, spend time with your girl freinds.. make memories and concentrate on school...You will wish you had once you got older!!! Good Look Girlie! and take my advice.. I was in this situation and had sex when I was 13 and guess what I was pregnant at 15 so if you decide to have sex use protection and be careful... I am 21 now and dont have any life outside my daughter!
2007-09-08 04:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 13 and writing like you are illiterate, not cute or funny. However, lets hope you have common sense. If you know a boy is asking you out because he wants to have sex then why are you selling yourself cheap? Girls who give it up easily are called hoes ,so why would you want that as the second thing people associate with your name? You already know he will be gone after he gets some, and he isn't going to lose his reputation ,you are. Think about getting an education, making great friends and finding your Mr. Right. This is only going to hurt you, and you will be kicking yourself after , for being so stupid and possibly winding up with an STD or a baby you can't raise.
2007-09-08 04:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one thing is that you are under age to participate in sexual relations any way .
So if you agree to go out with him then if he asks ,say
No that you are to young, and it is illegal and you both could get in serious trouble
A woman or girl should not agree to sex just to be popular or to keep a boy friend as if he has respect for you he will accept your refusal and wait
If he insists then he is not in love he just wants sex and then he will be gone
If you are sure he will ask then i advise you to say NO and not to go out with guys like him. At 13 you are still a child so enjoy your life now as later when you are older and grown up you will under stand more and be mature enough to make sensible decisions
2007-09-08 04:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by kevinmccleanblack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys I know want to have sex. Just say no. If he breaks up with you then he is not someone you want to go out with anyway. That just means he really didn't like you but what was in his pants instead. Chances are if you sleep with him he will still break up with you and you will regret sleeping with him later. This is not your fault! Their are so many guys out their. Don't just give it because you boyfriend wants you to. Wait until you know you are ready. Hopefully that is years down the line. Enjoy being 13;-) Its nice not having to worry about STD'S or pregnancy when you are that age!
2007-09-08 04:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by gijeanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think that he is mr right then don't go out with him. You are very young and you should not have sex at all until you are ready. So if you think that is all that this guy is after then don't even consider him. Other guys will come along that will want to go out with you for you not for sex. Be patient they will come along.
2007-09-08 04:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by firemouse23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm your writing is imprsive. But anyway are you serious? Being 13 is not really a good age to be having sex. So try finding a nerd instead, at least he will try when he is 18 or when he is a senior
2007-09-08 04:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ch0rE 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really have to go out with him... go to the movies or some place public or maybe on a group date. He needs to prove to you that he is not only after sex. If along the way you figure out that that is all he is after then I'd pass on him.
2007-09-08 04:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG DONT HAVE SEX WITH HIM plz plz dont to many kids on right now that ppl having sex at 13 no no no plz plz dont cause u are going to have many bf and u guys our underage and parents catch and u could get pregnet omg plz dont im in 7th so im almost 13 but im mature enough lol
2007-09-08 04:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone pressurise you into having sex. You can go out with someone and not have sex with them if that is your choice( which it should be at your age) and you make it clear to them that that is the deal. If he isn't interested in that and won't go out with you then you know what he was really after.
2007-09-08 04:39:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! what are u doing thinking about sex at thirteen anyway?... and why would u wana hook up with a guy who just wants you for sex? honestly... he don't care about you... and no type of love will build from a relationship like that... and why are so worried about being with someone? you young... u got ur whole life ahead of you... there will be more guys out there for you... you just got to give it time... the prince charming will come to you... and when you do have sex with a guy you wana have something for him... you want it to be special... you dont want to be that guys one night stand.. because you honestly think that if hes that worried about having sex with you so fast that hes going to stay with you? please gurl... you need to kick him to the curb! chunk da duece on that imature boy and wait for that one special guy to come to you.
2007-09-08 04:40:06 · answer #11 · answered by evalisious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋