Allah s.w.t clearly says in the Quran:
“… Wed them with the permission of their own folk and give them their mahr (dowry) according to what is reasonable; they should be chaste, not adulterous, nor taking boyfriends…” [al-Nisaa’ 4:25]
Today u see this guy praying jumah in the masjid, next day at school u see him makin out with this chick!! why do people like these even bother to call themselves muslim? they are not only a discrace to muslims, but to the rest of the world too.
How are we supposed to deal with these people? i tried tellin them that wat ur doing is completley wrong but they just ignore me...
2007-09-08 03:21:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Fun D Christian, they can live in the "free world" all they want, but not call themselves muslims if they'r not gon follow the Quran and sunnah
2007-09-08 03:27:43 · update #1
bmdt07, becos we are supposed to change any wrong to right by phyiscal action, if not, by the tongue, if not than by the eye
2007-09-08 03:31:02 · update #2
i'm just tryin to help someone out here u know
2007-09-08 04:56:57 · update #3
Alaikum Salam
The same reason they are in trasgression and why some call themselves PROUD! What a far cry from those great women we know to read about next to the prophet peace to them all and their families.
Its a crying shame how much the father doesn't teach the daughter in religion how to be, and it will all fall on his back in the end Al hamdoullah
2007-09-10 01:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Muslim like any other religion can be followed at different degrees. Some people follow all the rules and others use it as guidance and follow some of the rules but not all. It depends on how strong you are in your faith and what you actually believe. Being a good person and being kind to people is more important to me than whether you follow all the rules of a religion.
2007-09-08 03:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by gitanafille 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why do some muslims drink, do drugs, engage in adultery, steal, cheat, lie, etc...? The same answer applies to any of em.. Unfortunately the word "muslim" is and has been abused by the so called muslims...or those with weak souls. Our duties as muslims is to try to guide them as you did. By action, talk, and looks...if all doesnt work, then with our hearts. Remember, everytime you do, it only strenthens ur faith. Its nice to hear that there are msulims ur age, in such environments, still striving to be a real muslim and guide others. May Allah reward you for all your efforts...
2007-09-08 06:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by glamorous B 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to keep in mind that not everyone has strong faith like you do. You can't always judge those who do not follow the rules of a religion. Sometimes humans go with what they want in the moment, it is a natural instinct. Are you telling me that you have never had the urge to kiss or makeout with someone? Its only human. The world is constantly changing. What was wrong 100 years ago, is concidered fine in today's society. I always thought that religion should be something that completes you, that makes you happier, not upset because others don't obied by a holy book and it's guidelines. Humans will always be humans, we cannot be "perfect" according to what your definition of "perfection" is. We can only strive to be what we want to be, and if it upsets you so much that Muslims want to love, or be loved by another in return... than maybe you should concider the fact that not everyone is like you. You only get one life on earth to live, why not make the best of Yours?
2007-09-08 10:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by GunsGoBanG 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Asalam bro..
its cuz those teens are grown in the countries like US,UK ect..
they kinda forget what is Islam.
though here all of my friends in the Mosque they are 13 or 14 they have gf and bf..
but i don't cuz i love my Deen(Islam) and i don't want to disrespect my beloved Lord. i know its so true.. there is this guy who knows how to read the holy Quran, but he kissed his American Girlfriend! and have 4 other girlfriends..that's just stupid.
i know him .he is about my age and i don't want to say his name..(that's disrespectful)
anyways.. i 'm just gonna be the best muslim girl that i can be.i don't care about other people trying to do something that is against thier Deen..but its sad.
wasalam
Good Luck
2007-09-08 10:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by sweetheart93 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree with u and in my school some of the girls even show off their legs and wear sleeve less clothes, and i think that it's OK for a Muslim to like someone, and then get married with that person, but making out is a totally different thing, and it goes against everything Muslims believe in!
2007-09-08 06:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by Dreamer 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Praise be to Allah.
I won't find words better than Allah's, as he says (interpretation of the meaning):
"We have indeed sent down signs that make things manifest: and Allah guides whom He wills to a way that is straight
They say, "We believe in Allah and in the messenger, and we obey": but even after that, some of them turn away: they are not (really) Believers.
When they are summoned to Allah and His messenger, in order that He may judge between them, behold some of them decline (to come).
But if the right is on their side, they come to him with all submission.
Is it that there is a disease in their hearts? or do they doubt, or are they in fear, that Allah and His Messenger will deal unjustly with them? Nay, it is they themselves who do wrong.
The answer of the Believers, when summoned to Allah and His Messenger, in order that He may judge between them, is no other than this: they say, "We hear and we obey": it is such as these that will attain felicity.
It is such as obey Allah and His Messenger, and fear Allah and do right, that will win (in the end),"
[An-Noor 24 : 46-52]
In that there is a reminder for the one who has a heart or gives ear while he is heedful (cf. Qaaf 50:37). And Allaah is the Guide to the Straight Path; He is Sufficient for us and He is the Best disposer of affairs.
2007-09-08 05:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by Khalid H 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Exactly the same way Christians have boyfriends and girlfriends when its totally forbidden in Christianity,but unlike Christians,only few Muslims do so.
2007-09-08 03:38:11 · answer #8 · answered by shockoshocko 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
yeah, there are alot of those at my school. that pray jumah at school and as soon as they leave they go on doing their haram, as if they did not just hear the kutba. but those people will be held accountable for what they are doing one day. but i don't knwo why they still call themselves muslim
2007-09-08 04:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by Nadine 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
saying that u r a muslim is not enough u have to act on it ,prove it..............these people just say that they r muslims but r not in reality..they r just fake........they want to do the easy part in the religion and not the hard part........
i live in an arabic country in ramadan everybody fasts ofcorse i believe that it has to do more with tradition and not religion anyhow,after fasting a long day people go out at night ..... girls with"NON ISLAMIC" outfits and guys hanging around...doing "NON ISLAMIC" things..IRONY right?????
2007-09-08 22:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by meme 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋