Just your opinion. It doesn't really make much sence, because I think (And EVERYone else tells me) that I'm like the lowest maintnence person they've met. Anyway, what's your thoughts?
2007-09-07 21:18:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just a couple of things:
Sorry I make typos. That's my problem not yours.
She wasn't acutally the one that told me that, in fact she never gave me a reason at all. Someone told me that's what she told them.
And my friends don't really understand it, though, because they don't think I'm like that at all.
2007-09-08 06:02:37 · update #1
Was that the only reason she gave you? She didn't elaborate? In my mind too needy is someone consistently needing attention, overly asking what you're thinking, what you're feeling. It's good to talk about those things, but in excess it comes across as needy. Are you the type of person that can't be alone? Do you rely on her for a LOT of things? That's needy sort of in a nutshell.
2007-09-07 21:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one:
Try spell-checking. It's free and it's right there on the screen.
Number two:
When they say 'you're too needy', probably means that they aren't willing to go the extra mile (so-to-speak) for you so why bother with narrow minded people like her anyway.
OR
They aren't adult enough to see the big picture (meaning you and her future together), so send them back to the playpen and move on.
IF the general consensus is that you are not a high maintenance person (whatever the hell that means... everyone has needs....) I'd say f*ck this person and look for better.
2007-09-08 04:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by saint_lee26 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Needy doesn't mean high maintenance, it means being too clingy, too accomodating, too eager to please....that makes you easy to take for granted because the word "no" isn't in your vocabulary. Sometimes its in your best interest to be difficult, because niceness is easily forgotten.
2007-09-08 04:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me , it probably means you liked her more than she liked you .
Did she do nice things for you , probably not as much as you did for her ?
Did she call you often , not as much as you called her ?
She is likely needing space , her needs are changing , and you just arent what she is looking for at this moment .
Dont change , there will be a woman who wants what you have to offer !
2007-09-08 04:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by BadBadKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never left her alone. A girl needs her space in a relationship.
2007-09-08 04:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to much attention, your insecure, you wine, your always there by her side never want to be apart. you want to know everything shes doing or who she talks to, you need hugs and kisses like a puppy dog.you dont want her out of your sight!
2007-09-08 04:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by maree2007hamill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i dont know in person, but if your friends told you that ask your self if you are realy needy ?
2007-09-08 04:40:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were on her bum too much and need air from your needy ways.
2007-09-08 04:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by spayhappy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you must be too clingy/ too over protective / too desperate / too unreliable / too help-needing...any of those i guess? be honest with yourself...
2007-09-08 04:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by Krab Sushi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you relied to much from her
2007-09-08 04:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋