My friend recently contracted an STD (Chlamydia) from her boyfriend. Of course he flipped the script and it's blaming her for it. He said that he went to the doctor yesterday and was tested, and it came back negative. He also told her that his doctor said that she probably had the stuff for the past 10 months. Mind you they've been having sex the entire time, but he doesn't have it??? I told her that this is absurd; I truly believe that he had it. Then he gave it to her, and once he found out, he took care of it. I know that she's soooo in love with him, and at this point is willing to forgive him. The only problem is that I strongly feel he's going to do this again. He travels a lot, and he's living the fast life. My friend has (2) little girls that need their mother; what if she catch something worst the next time? then what happens?? I wish I could find tangible proof that shows her that he's lying about not having the STD. Help! thanks! nini :-( FYI....He's an attorney.
2007-09-06 02:50:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
it sounds as if she needs to get proof of his test - if he is the only one that she has been with as of late and he will not give over his results then she has her answer. Not to mention, the department of public health will be involved as all bacterial STI's in the states are reported and then tracked to stop the infection.
2007-09-06 09:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by sandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL YOUR FRIEND NEEDS TO TAKE CONTROL OF HER LIFE AND USE SOME CONDOMS IF SHE REALLY LOVE THIS GUY. WE LIVE IN A SAD WORLD AND PEOPLE WHO GUILTY ALWAYS PUT THERE FINGER IN OTHER PEOPLE FACE. I feel for your friend because I know how she feel the level of trust etc. But tell your friend to hold on she will overcome tell she is not alone there are other who going through the same just focus on getting heal so she can take care of her little girls
2007-09-10 08:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by rrobtex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four simple words:
No Glove, No Love (words to live by) literally. She's a big girl if he doesn't want to wear a condom then he really doesn't care about her or respect her
2007-09-06 14:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by Bassetlover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its her choice even though i know you are trying to protect her... Its really stupid to be having unprotected sex these days, she is playing with her life...
2007-09-06 09:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE DEFINTLY GOT IT FROM HIM. SHE DONT DESERVE HIM,ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER.
2007-09-06 10:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by TABBYKAT34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋