I want to go on an overnight camping trip with my boyfriend for Labor Day, but we want to avoid any sexual situations... Any ideas of how we can stay together but not get *too* close? I think we would just stay in the back of my truck or something.
If you guys have any better ideas for hanging out, without the regular dinner and movie thing, let me know too!
2007-08-31 13:40:42 · 8 answers · asked by Treasa 5 in Sports ➔ Outdoor Recreation ➔ Camping
uhm we are 18 and 24... parents arent really a big part of our lives, lol. and we have had sex before, but we want to stop so we can focus on more important parts of our relationship.
2007-08-31 15:06:00 · update #1
I say if you have any doubts about whether or not this is a good idea you should probably avoid camping out together. If you still want to do something outdoors that will allow you to further develop your relationship try a challenging hike, going fishing, cycling, canoeing for the day or something like that. Those activities will give you lots of time to talk and interact in non-sexual ways. Another hint is to do things with a few friends. This will also help avoid too cozy situations.
If you absolutely must go camping, then bring two tents and bring friends. Have the gals sleep in one tent and the guys in the other on separate campsites. This will allow you to hang out all day with your boyfriend if you like but will also give you the possibility of space if you need it to prevent sex from becoming an issue.
Take it from a good Catholic girl who spends 75% of her summer in the bush, usually around men. There are ways of enjoying the wilderness with your boyfriend or your guy friends without putting yourself in situations you are trying to avoid.
2007-09-01 05:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
This doesn't really have anything to do with camping, but I'll give it a shot. If you don't want to have sex with someone, overnight activities should be strictly avoided. By planning something like this, you're sending mixed signals, essentially you're teasing him, and that's really sad for both of you. Having sex and then "stopping" is usually called breaking up. I don't know why any guy would agree to this unless he really loves you, and if you really love each other there's nothing wrong or complicated about having sex when you both feel like it. It sounds like you have doubts about your relationship, and, you know, if you don't really love him, it isn't really love and isn't really a relationship. It's probably more like a little game. Except in this game people get scarred for life.
2007-08-31 17:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope I don't. If you're gonna share a tent /truck with your boyfriend it is almost 100% certain that sex in some form of another will happen, so you should be practically prepared for that inevitability. If your boyfriend says that it's not going happen then he's a liar and he needs to grow up and learn how to be honest about things that are of a sexual nature.
If you really don't want a sexual situation to happen then be smart and don't put yourself in a physical environment where that is likely to occur.
Have a good weekend
2007-08-31 14:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-03 10:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by dutel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite your parents
2007-08-31 14:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by capncatnip 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should just tell him that you're not ready to sleep with him yet. And whether he can respect that.
It will be a little test for him ...
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2007-08-31 13:49:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Two tents.
2007-08-31 14:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by Gray Wanderer 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U BETTER PUT OUT CUZ I NO HES THINKIN THE SAME THING I JUST WROTE
2007-08-31 13:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 10⤋