so a few weeks ago i noticed a small ball type thing in my vaginal(female genital region)... and at first it was only there when i'd get excited in that way(sexually)... and when i wasn't excited it wasn't there... but just these past 2 or 3 days i've noticed that it has gotten much larger... i look at it in the mirror and it's purple, like vein color purple... and its pretty much ALWAYS there now... and it isn't like in the front or anything... its down in the last layer of the lips right b4 u would enter the vaginal canal... i'm scared bcuz i dont know wut it is... i'm too scared to say anything to anyone but a doctor... but in order for me to get to the doctors i'd have to say something to my mom... but i'm too scared... if it's related to having sex, then i'd have to admit to her that i'm not a virgin anymore... and i'm to scared.... could someone please help me... i have no idea wuts wrong or wut it is... please help i cried myself to sleep last night... please help...
2007-08-29 18:39:55 · 9 answers · asked by dimples 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
There r clinics that u can go to that will look at you without tellin ur parents u prolly would have 2 search on the internet for one in ur area or ask someone where one is but the problem would still be getting there. And if worse comes to worse jus tell ur mom that something is wrong down there and tell her that u have no idea y u dont have 2 admitt ur havin sex and when she takes u 2 the doc hint 2 the doc u dont want ur mom in the room and u dont want her/him 2 tell ur mom that ur sexually active(doctor patient privelege). But ur best bet is to try 2 find a clinic they'll help
2007-08-29 18:52:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing you could do is see a doctor to make sure it is nothing too serious. Any abnormal lumps should be checked out just in case. Can you visit a doctor without your mother knowing. Ideally it would help if you could tell your mother... she may not jump to conclusions about you having sex and she may be heaps understanding and be able to help you through whatever you are going through. Hopefully it is just a cyst or something simple that is not life threatening. But you best be sure and see a doctor just in case. :) It is better to be safe than sorry. :)
Good luck with everything. You should give it a go and trust your mother. She could take it all in her stride and be cool about it all. Atleast I hope she is for your sake. :)
2007-08-29 18:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 18:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by mirville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry I'm sure if u tell ur mom what's going on she will understand!It's not like she's going to stop loving u if u tell her that ur not a virgin anymore, so just tell her the truth!But if u don't want to tell her then get a friend to drive u to the doctor.U should do it now before it's too late & to get itt over with!I bet ur mom will understand.If she's always been there for u then she's going to be there for u now.
2007-08-30 04:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by wblady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely it is an std u shouldnt have any types of bumps down there at all. So if I was u u need to let someone know so u can go get on some medication to clear what ever u have up. It sounds to me like chlamydia and if u dont get it treated u will go steril.
2007-08-30 07:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it itch a lot? Is it rough in texture? It could be a vaginal wart which is treatable, but even at that, you NEED to talk to your mom. You NEED to see a DR. Your Mom may be upset, but she would rather know that you can trust her to go to her with ANYTHING and know that you are ok and checked out than to not. Dont let it go..please talk to her..if you really cant, talk to a friends mom or another adult you trust, but I advise your mom...believe me, as a mother of 3 children(and two teens) I would rather know that my kids are safe and healthy , even though I may be upset, than to think my kids couldnt come to me. Im sure your mom feels the same way. Good luck!
2007-08-29 18:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by jh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like it is a swollen vein in your vulva.
This can happen
if you have reached arousal but not orgasm.
if you have had a rough or extended sexual encounter
if you have developed a varicose vein in your vulva ( a bit like a haemeroid!)
You should consult a Dr.
It would be better to confide in your mother, but otherwise try a free clinic in your area.
2007-08-29 19:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tarkarri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that before, it came from a tight pair of underwear my doctor said, it's like a boil right? My doctor drained mine, but you can do that yourself too, eventually it may pop itsself. I made them pop mine because it was miserable. Mine came from a pair of underwear and summer sweating.
A heating pad will help it open, or warm bath tub soaks.
2007-08-29 19:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by Wutz it worth 2 ya? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to have a friend or something drive you to a free clinic. Research online for free testing in ur area.
2007-08-29 18:57:56 · answer #9 · answered by hmm 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋