My friends and I have came across men in our lives that just could not use a condom because they immediatly lose their erection. I was wondering if this is actually true that some men just can't use condoms?
2007-08-28 20:41:28 · 20 answers · asked by Poizzen Ivy 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
Maybe they get distracted during the "installation process" It is a well-known fact that the average male mind can only handle one stimulus at a time; so, it all boils down to: install prophylactic, or maintain erection; pick one!
Maybe you could try putting it on him.
2007-08-28 20:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not an expert, but these dudes stink to me. Seems to be a case of guys trying to pull the wool over your eyes for some reason. We all know those men who HATE condoms and would try anything to get you to agree to not use one. Remember the old line, "But I could DIE if we don't have sex!" Same situation, guys lying through their teeth to get in our pants on their terms.
There is really no reason I can imagine why this would happen to a man, unless he had some really weird psychological thing going on. Even if they are being honest, it doesn't change the facts. You and your girls know better than to have sex without protection, so until the problem is resolved, you'll just have to content him (and yourselves) with holding hands and cuddling.
I have a suspicion that if you held out long enough, these guys' "problem" would resolve itself pretty quickly. In the meantime, you could suggest they talk to their doc about erectile dysfunction. If it is genuine, the doc should know why and how to go about fixing it.
2007-08-29 03:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by gobigms 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that those men are full of beans.. really.. if they lose their erection then they must not be very excited to begin with.. I see the only way someone can't wear a condom is if their penis is very very small...
2007-08-29 06:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by ompie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Almost no guy LIKES wearing a condom, but only a few are so turned off by it that they CAN'T use one... most guys can get around the issue if they really want to... especially if their gf gives them a little extra incentive, like offering to put it on with their teeth...
Best,
Ed, RN
2007-08-29 03:54:03 · answer #4 · answered by RNcalledEd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no that is a mental thing. They just do not want to use the condoms. never really gave it a chance. find someone that will use, them stop having unprotected sex. there are men who can't use latex so they have to use lamb skin. not as safe though.
2007-08-29 03:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by shareecee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never heard of that specific condition. I know some men are allergic to latex but they make latex-free condoms. If a guy told me he couldn't use a condom I'd drop him so fast his head would spin.
2007-08-29 03:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No matter how hot they are Tell them No Glove No Love. No man is worth Catching some thing. If they can't use latex tell them they can Buy sheep skins Condoms. If they say they are to big for condoms tell them sheeps skin. You can feel more with sheeps skin also....................No man is worth your life
2007-08-29 11:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by mommy2faithat19#3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they lose their erection because they want you to think they just cant have sex with one on... so next time it happens, then tell em to go away... some people are allergic to latex, but they do make condoms out of different things....
2007-08-29 03:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by firechick1721 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No----- it is an excuse to have sex without one ,they are selfish
They act of putting on a condom can be exciting in its self
2007-08-29 03:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by kevinmccleanblack 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
they can be allergic to the latex and other products but they can also take an allergy pill or it can just be an excuse..
Next time a guy says that just be like well then i cant have sex wit you!
2007-08-29 03:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by jenny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋