I found out my boyfriends ex-girlfirend has herpes. She cheated on him during their 6 year relationship and got it and did not tell him. Well she had an outbreak and he was sexually active with her during it. She then went on Valtrex for the rest of the 4 years of the relationship, and he just assumed he had it ( so he kept sleepin with her). Well, he SAYS he had some irritation down there one day and got tested. They stuck a long Q-Tip inside his thing and swabbed and he says he doesnt have it. I dont understand how you sleep with someone for 4 years kowing they have herpes. . when you dont have it. DOESNT MAKE SENSE TO ME. I am really worried .. I am pregnant. . and i KNOW i do not have it, because I made sure my doc test for it at my first prenatal exam. Do you think he is lying to me? Should I make him get tested? I've never seen anything that looks like herpes . .but it still worried me .. especially because I am pregnant.
2007-08-28 09:19:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
the test he is discribing is a GC/Chlyam test not an HSV test. the only way to be sure that and you have it is by having an IgG type specific blood test. many people with HSv do not know that they even have it.
2007-08-28 11:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by sandi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-10 01:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are pregnant then keep a close watch on yourself and if any kind of pain or sore go get tested as you do not want to have any open sore at least 2 wks before the baby is due. Even if your irst test was negative, it may be you just didn't have symptoms.
It is possible to have herpes w/o knowing it and yet it also is possible NOT to give it to another. My ex husband and I lived together 16 yrs and he claims he never got it.
I would be concerned if he is a) still seeing her, and b) is he gonna step up to the plate and be a Dad??
2007-08-28 19:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by atheleticman_fan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him nicely that you would really feel better if he would get a copy of the results or have it done again. He could be telling the truth, especially if they used a condom. Some people have just been known to be lucky at Russian Roulette. And congrats on being a mommy in waiting!!!
2007-08-28 14:37:08 · answer #4 · answered by zen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to hear this but okay let me keep up this , u new that this man ex had herpes and yet you still are with him and now you are pregnant by him, how can u judge him when u are thinking the same, and if u love this man as u say u do it should not matter, but if it helps you to sleep at night then yes he should
2007-08-28 10:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by jada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but **** that. If you want to have a child with someone, nothing is more important then trust. If you can't trust him, you do not deserve to be in a relationship with him. Deal with it, or you will never truly be happy.
2007-08-28 10:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sleeping with him untill you have your babby or he gets tested dont take any chances with your babby
2007-08-28 09:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would believe him if he said he got tested,,BUT,,,just because he didn't have it then doesn't mean he doesn't have it now,,he should get tested again for you & his safety,,and also he may not have ever been infected with it,,good luck
2007-08-28 10:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Laura W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋