I was in a relationship for four years. we broke up about 1year and 2 months ago.we had physical relations as well (no condom).now girl is looking to go out with me but i am scared that if we ended up in bed and had sex with no condom , will it give me any kind of disease. is there a time period from the last relationship after which i can have sex with this girl without condom .
2007-08-26 02:25:33 · 31 answers · asked by princeb 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
oh dear.
2007-08-26 02:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
You should not be sleeping with Anybody. And I mean with Or without a condom.
You can pass (or receive) a sexually transmitted disease to/from anyone you have sex with without a condom. If either partner is already infected, then it is possible for the other to catch the disease from the exchange of body fluids.
You're not going to "catch" an STD from a current partner because you once had unprotected sex elsewhere. That's not how it works. You may Already BE infected if your previous partner already carried a disease,
As long as you don't understand how diseases are transmitted, you shouldn't be having sex with anyone.
Go to the bookstore. Read. Get informed. Then-- act responsibly.
2007-08-26 02:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Err! It is of course nothing to do with the relationship or the timing, simply if you or your partner have an STD. You don't catch diseases from people simply because you have sex, infection is not retribution or a punishment, only from infected individuals. Unless you are actively attempting to produce a pregnancy, even if your new partner is on the pill, you should use a condom to reduce the STD risk anyway!
2007-08-26 08:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by Dr Frank 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how long you wait and with who. You can get a disease (STD) from ANYONE! Even if it looks like there is nothing wrong with her. The problem with STDs is that they do not work on a schedule...even if you waited a year before you had sex with another girl, you can still get an STD. It does not matter how long you wait. It would be best if you wore a condom. You may thank me later for it.
2007-08-26 02:36:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always use a condom to prevent spread of STDs, just because 'girl' is looking to go out with you, you need to have a mature conversation about this.
Also risk of pregnancy - be sensible about this.
If you are both prepared to take the risk, and both sure you are clear of any STDs, then the choice is yours, but so is the responsibility of any accidental baby.
Why are you scared SHE will give you disease, are you sure YOU havent got any disease.
2007-08-27 22:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by SP/ARMAGH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i have no idea how old you are but you dont sound very clued up on sex which gives me the impression your quite young or just naieve well having sex without a condom is always going to be putting yourself or your new partner for that matter at risk of sexually transmitted dieseses and infections some of which may lie dormant for several years without you knowing. my advice to you is to go to a gum clinic with your new girlfriend and both of you can be tested to see if you have any infections.if they come back clean your fairly safe providing your faithfull to one another if they come back negative you will have to let all your sexual parters know so they can get themselves checked out also. anyway nevermind the chance of std's have you even considered the fact you may get these girls pregnant ??!!
2007-08-26 02:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound way to young to be having sex! If you do than always use a condom. There is no safe time when you won't get a disease or knock someone up and you my friend should NOT be a father yet! My gosh. I hope this was a joke. Otherwise this world is scarier than I thought.
2007-08-26 02:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by mystic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be stupid. always use a condom until you have both been tested for std's at a clinic. only when you have both been given the all clear can you ditch the condoms. if you dont want children though either you will have to carry on using condoms or she will have to have some form of hormonal (pill, injection) or barrier contraception (femidom, diaphram).
so DO NOT do it without a condom until after tests.
2007-08-26 04:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by jennifer f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If either one of you have a sexually transmitted infection, you might not even know it. You can pass them on even if you don't show symptoms.
And don't forget, you might get her pregnant. Birth control pills, the ring, the patch, or any type of hormonal birth control are not 100% effective, so if you're concerned about pregnancy and diseases, then ask her to get on the pill or something, and use a condom everytime.
2007-08-26 03:26:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. Using a condom is vital in preventing the tranfer of STD's and to prevent the female partner from getting pregnant.
You don't know who your ex has slept with, so using a condom is very important until she gets tested for STD's and AIDS and you are sure she is clean. Even then, you need to use a condom to prevent pregnancy.
2007-08-26 02:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't EVER have sex without a condom, unless it is with your wife. STD's are harmful, and some can kill you. Also you are taking a risk with pregnancy. Pregnancy outside of marriage is not something I would recommend either. It is a very difficult situation to deal with. Protect yourself, ALWAYS. You should also go to the doctor to make sure you didn't contract anything from your previous girlfriend, or any others previous to them. When you have unprotected sex, you are also having sex with every man she's ever been with, it. It's not worth the risk my friend. ALWAYS protect yourself.
2007-08-26 02:38:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋