IDK how 2 put this but i just need help so answer plzzz im scared...?

Question

ok so i had unprotected sex (I know it was stupid) and we were in a movie theater and did oral and then we actually did it l8r and now i found out she was using me 2 cheat on a guy so he says he wants 2 b friends and so were talking and he says she has aids and that they have had unprotected sex so how do I know if i have it, i cant get tested b/c if my dad finds out omg im gonna have 2 find a new family lol he will kill me... I am scared b/c i have 2 much in my life 2 loose b/c i made 1 stupid choice plz help

Answer 1

I don't think you have AIDS. The guy who she cheated on is probably mad. I mean, I would be mad if my boyfriend cheated on me. So anyway, this guy was probably mad at you and the girl. Then he made up some lame lie about her having AIDS to scare you cuz he was mad that you were with his girlfriend.

Does that make sense? I mean, I know it's immature to try and scare you just cuz he was mad, but it's a realistic thing that people do.

And, if you're still really worried and concerned, you can go to a clinic. get on Google and find a Planned Parenthood clinic somewhere in your area. They do free STD checks. That way you will know for sure whether or not you have AIDS or any other STD.

Answer 2

You may be able to go to your local health dept. to get tested.It's free,or close to free,and you won't have to tell your parents.Look them up and call them to get all of the answers.I think it takes a few months for HIV to show up in your blood,so you may have to wait a little while.In the mean time,don't be intimate with anyone until you find out for sure.Lord willing you'll be fine,and the best way to prevent the scare again,is to keep your hormones in check,and don't have sex,until you have a faithful partner,that you plan on spending the rest of your life with,and even then use protection!Good luck!

Answer 3

Meditation is a shown technique which provides relief from melancholy/rigidity/stress/unhappiness and convey happiness. Meditation may be tried as a organic thank you to triumph over melancholy and to additionally strengthen psychological power to stand the themes of daily existence.i could propose you to aim mindfulness of respiration meditation and loving kindness meditation innovations. happening a meditation retreat could help to an incredible quantity. Having been a meditator for the previous 4 years i will swear by the end results of meditation.

Answer 4

ha ok if u and the girl are talking now wait till u guys are GF and Bf anf make her go get tested or ha u can scare her into gettin tested one way to do it secretly u know..

Answer 5

HIV tests are confidential and you don't have to have your parents there. The also make an at home test you could get at Walgreen's.

Answer 6

you need to go to the dr or health dept to get tested because if you don't you are going to lose your life anyway

Answer 7

ABSTAIN