i lost my wife due to diabetes complications,and my mom to als...lou gherigs disease.i regret that i didnt spend more time with my mom,but it just hurt me so bad to see her paralyzed,6 months after being able to walk...i know suicide is not the answer,but i have a lot of guilt towards my wife,for not being able to save her.i have diabetes as well,and already have some symptoms of it now.
2007-08-23 20:51:54 · 8 answers · asked by devoted husband 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Diabetes
You are sad, and you are grieving. You have every right to go through these emotions. It's time to reach out to support groups and find a doctor that you can trust. You may have to meet several doctors until you find the best one. There is a reason that you are still here in this world, and you must stay with those who are still here. I wish you the very best. You are not alone. I know that you feel alone, but we are all here. Keep posting if you need assurance from friends.
2007-08-23 21:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bless your heart. I know you are hurting but would your wife want you to feel this guilt? I don't think so. If you loved her and she knew it, then that is what counts. You will be with her again. Find a support group to help you through the grieving process. You are not the only one that feels this way. There are others out there and are willing to help. God bless you and be with you.
2007-08-24 03:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by db2byl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look there was nothing you can do about either one of the problems your family had. but you can now respect their wishes and live for them. that is the best thing for them. get yourself turned around adn start on diet and talk to the doctor about depression and have them send you to a specialist for both of the things you need and it will turn arounda dn soon you will be living good again. there is no two people alikeand God called them both at this tiem but he is not wanting you yet. its your time to rest and learn how to care fo ryourself and be happy. its not the end a new beginning and go for it.
2007-08-26 09:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am the brother of a juvenile onset, insulin dependent, brittle diabetic. I know what it is like to support ill family members. I would be happy to talk to you. let's do it on the phone. I live in San Jose, CA. write back if you are interested and we can exchange contact info.
2007-08-23 21:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by ninety9point8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude that really truly sucks but just live your life to the fullest you can't be sad or in fear all the time thats just not life.
2007-08-23 21:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find a support group. start with your doctor, they know of a lot of resources. Take care of yourself.
2007-08-24 04:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please take care of yourself as well. People question who is the victim?the one die or the one stay alive. It is as painful as die when your love one suffering and gone.
My bf is type1 for 20 yrs, he has been taking care of himself very well. I know how you feel even though i am still having him around me.
2007-08-24 07:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by judy06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-23 23:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋