which relationship is the most difficult ie which needs greatest sacrifice to continue religeously.choose one?

Question

a. husband wife
b. parents son or daughter
c. friends
d. brother sister

choose one of the above . please do not add your choice .

secondaly where do you place the relationship of Guru-shishya

b.parents son ( or parents daughter)

Answer 1

No relation is difficult. If your religion is right you will be able to live with a wife, parents and brothers and sisters of different religion. You will be mature enough to allow your children to follow the religion of their choice. Same is the case with Guru.

These relationships can not be maintained if your faith is weak and your religion do not have the maturity to tolerate others.

Answer 2

In my opinion Jitender ,

I feel that most difficult ie which needs greatest sacrifice to cotinue religeously is the husband wife because this is the only relationship which can make your life happier or miserablle for ever and ever .

If by chance the relationship between these two is not set up and built up properly , you may try to adjust for the sake of kids or you may burn within your own walls but if you try to get out of it, you will get more pain and sufferings.

Parents son or daughter this is the most bonded and best relationship ever expected, which brings and builds your hope, trust and confidence.


Brother and sister most adorable and loveable relationship on earth ,a brother can forget but a sister will never and never forget but she know how to forgive.

Guru-shishya for me is like a teacher student relation ship and in my opinion what a kid gets from this relationship even parents will fade.

I have seen the kids around me listen more to there teachers than there mothers and sometimes counter that my teacher is always right.

There is a great impact on shishya that of a teacher he/ she always wants to be like a teacher and what is bad in it teacher is a guiding force for them, she/he can make them responisble citizens and above all Guru can stop a shishya from going astray and I firmly believe that the teacher has the biggest impact on students life.

Friends will remain gems for ever and ever without any doubt but the choices and situation matters.

Answer 3

d. Although in my case it is sister to sister. I have found that when sisters grow up too close in age, they compete too much and resent each other too much. My own sister and I are completely estranged after I tried to mediate an argument between her and her husband. Predictably, they both turned on me. So my husband suggested perhaps the best I could do for them was to function as their common enemy. One thing they could agree upon was that I was insufferable. Fine. Now I don't even know if my sister is still alive.

As to the relationship of master and student, which is what I understand of your question about Guru-shishya, I believe that is probably more demanding but also more rewarding than any of the family relationships mentioned.

Answer 4

The most difficult relationship which is based on mutual sacrifice and loving each other closely is HUSBAND and WIFE. A husband or wife can not call anyone else as wife or husband and it is an exclusive relationship only between this two. You can adopt or consider anyone as parent, son, daughter, friend, brother or sister or any other relation.

Secondly I would place Guru-Sishya relationship equal to Parent and their child (Son or daughter) as these two move with such obedience and learning from elder ones and love and teaching to younger ones-

Answer 5

Husband Wife
coz
husband can treat his wife sometimes as mother, sister, daughter, freind, enemy..... and vise versa a wife can treat her husband sometimes as Father, brother, son, freind enemy.....
So i would say Husband - Wife relation can give a greater experience, a man born with no sister can even feel the sisterly love from wife at times, .... & vise versa.
Further more can even act Guru - shisya role too.

Answer 6

husband wifes relation is the best . if both r sincere to each other they remain with each other till death as u can not trust u r other relaitonships to be that sincere towards u as parents die early and brothers are busy with their family and son? now a days u can not rely on them whether they will be with u or not .may be when u die they come to give u kandha and take u too the shamshan ghat and then go back to their family.

Answer 7

I would say having a relationship with my brother. But you didn't add in-laws to your choice-which is the MOST difficult relationship I have ever had to try and fake being happy when I am around them! Truly the number 1 most difficult relationship ever.

Answer 8

I think they are all equal.

Relationships should not involve sacrifice but love, caring, and respect.

Difficulty in loving, respecting, and caring for a family member has more to do with personalities and values, than on the type of relationship.

Judgement makes it difficult to get along. Acceptance makes it easy.

Answer 9

the Holy Bible tells us,
"Therefore, a man leaves his father and his mother and clings to his wife, and they become one flesh." these are God's own words, cf. Genesis 2, 24.
hence the husband-wife relationship is for life and has to be endured at all costs.

Answer 10

husband and Wife. Because you cant divorced you must work through your problems.

You can leave an abusive relationship and live as a separted person