Parents divorce?...maybe! HELP!!!?
My mom and dad are in there late 40's ...They get along great! they have little fights here and there..But one day they got into this HUGE fight over "responsiblitys and stuff" My mom blew her top and she went to stay at my aunts house for a bit. As for my dad he's cooling down to. Later on that week my dad went to go check up on my mom and my aunt said she went out to some party with a friend (the friends a guy). So we head over to the party and my dad and I search around for mom...My dad finds her kissing "that guy friend" and she didnt have her wedding ring (i dont know why) My dad was completley shocked and devastated and pissed, My mom saw the look on his face, but before she could say anything my dad stormed off! He wont talk to her or sleep in the same bed with her anymore...She still stays at my aunts house some nights...It makes me sad to see my dad so upset and down ....Im afraid my parents might split...How can they save their relationship!!!
2007-08-22 16:56:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
MY PARENTS HAVENT PUT ME AT FAULT!!!!!
what can THEY do to win eachother back? Like should they go out to dinner? make a scene? WHAT!!!!!
2007-08-22 17:07:11 · update #1
Hey,
This is exactly what happened to me, but my mom was found with my teacher from school. Hopefully, for your sake, your parents can work this out. Right now my advice for you is to just continue with your life, and let them work this out themselves. It is their job to save their marriage, not your job. I know it sucks, but hang in there. If you get too involved or your parents rely on you to get information to each other, let them know that they should talk to each other, not use you as the middle person bc that is not fair to you.
I hope it works out between them, in my family, it didn't work out so well but i'm very happy now with my two new blended families.
Good luck
2007-08-22 17:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by amf42d5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are not the one who can save your parents' relationship...
however, they are...
but in my personal point of view, your dad probably is still mad with your mom, about the whole fighting thing plus, he saw there is some other guy was kissing your mom!!
this is a very huge humiliation for a man who is married, about seeing his wife kissing other guy? no way!!
and honestly the final dicission is up to your dad..
because no matter how huge the fighting was, but then it is your mom who did wrong afterward...
however, if i were in your dad's place, i think i will try to talk to her first... try to make thing works...
well, all the best to you and your family, hope my ans can help!
2007-08-22 17:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Alex 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that will save their marriage at this point is counseling. If I were you I would ask them to have a family meeting with you and without emotion and without drama tell them that you are asking them to get counseling. Tell them they have scared you and that you, as their son, are asking them to try to figure out a way to forgive each other.
Other than that, there is nothing you can do, these are grown people and they are going to have to want to do better.
2007-08-22 17:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but there is nothing you can do. Sometimes is better so divorce than to be in an unhappy marriage. You don't know about all the issues and misunderstanding there have beeen between your mom and dad. It doesn't matter is they divorced, one thing is for sure, they will always love you no matter what.
2007-08-22 17:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by lilia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it sounds like your dad is using you in some way. You shouldn't even be involved in this. This is between them and now your father has put you right in the mix.
2007-08-22 17:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by todd3240 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not save the relationship - only they can if they choice to
2007-08-22 17:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋