2007-08-22 14:13:48 · 17 answers · asked by krimson.suicide 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not like i dont WANT to go ther cuz i do.. but my mom was just being a XXXXX and said i couldnt. and i todl him he could come here and see me n he said no?
thnx for al lthe answers so far - $mitys
2007-08-22 14:24:29 · update #1
i dotn think my mom really has a reason for not letting me go besides the fact that i was just there yesterday? but big deal..
anyways. now my boyfriend is mad at me still and calling me a liar....
2007-08-22 17:52:19 · update #2
Either he needs to learn something or you need to get a new guy in your life.
2007-08-22 14:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
After two years of dating you guys should be able to talk about and resolve almost anything.As to your question, what you do depends on why you can't go to his house.Are there reasons such as distance, transport, privacy, or activities that is preventing you from going there.Only the answers to these questions will make your decision clearer for you. If there are no reasonable or justifiable reasons to not go to your boyfriend's house, then I think you should go.Since you did not explain the reasons for his anger, it makes whatever is said to be speculative.So focus on the issues I suggested earlier and it might help you know what to do.
2007-08-22 21:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you ditching him for something probably less important? If so, he'd probably feel upset that you would rather do THAT then come and see him. Just let him know if you can't come a head of time. (If you have no transportation, something came up, emergency, etc.) I'm sure he'll understand. If he doesn't, then he's being a controllable jerk.
2007-08-22 21:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Ally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are going to be lots of things that either he or you is not happy about. The important thing is for couples to be able to communicate with each other without being too bossy or possessive.
2007-08-22 21:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by aja5505 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, the guy wants to be with you. Any relationship that lasts that long is worth while, just be patient, and he'll probably come around, he's just bummed you're not next to him cuddling up in front of a movie.
Kudos for the two years!
2007-08-22 21:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something if you cant go to your boyfriend house he gets mad, Perhaps you have other things to do and cant go listen you need to not let him boss you around to make you go to his house even if you don't want to.
Listen once you start catering to him its gonna be no stopping stand up and be your self.
Good luck
2007-08-22 21:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think he may not want you to go hang out at his house, does he have something to hide or what? Try to do some investigating and go to his house without letting him know anything!
2007-08-22 21:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by In love! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him to grow up. This is childish. Then you need to tell him that the road goes both ways. I would seriously reconsider this relationship. Is he this childish with other issues as well?
2007-08-22 21:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by kahlah23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move in together. or have him come to your house. or explain WHY you cant come over. if you just dont want to then you probably dont like him much anyway.
2007-08-22 21:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by amy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should explain to him that whenever he wants you to come over you can't do it all the time! And you'll come over as much as you can.
2007-08-22 21:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by The LOVE doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋