Where are the men who dont cheat?
Who love you for you; not because you are blonde and have big boobs and are nice looking.
Who would do anything in this world for you.
Who calls you at three in the morning to say I love you.
Who stops by at your house to see you.
Who truley loves you and you know it.
Who is your prince charming.
Your everything.
Where are those guys??
I have been hurt over and over again.
And this last time it cut deep.
Im 21 and I have time.
But I just want to find one guy that is different.
So guys tell me what has happened to all the good guys??
2007-08-22 13:48:25 · 17 answers · asked by blondebabyxoxo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hiding from the girls who hurt us one time too many.
2007-08-22 15:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you have described as a man paints a picture of me. Unfortunately for you, I'm gay and have been married for the past 17 years. But don't give up. There are men such as you seek but you may not recognize the packaging. We in this country are vain. We are attracted to those who on the surface are handsome or pretty. You may be surprised to hear that the kind of man you are looking for does not always appear as a tall, dark, and handsome fella. You may have more success if you look for a man's quality in his head and heart. I know a few great guys who would love an opportunity to find a woman that they could fall in love with and raise a family. These are really great guys who still know what it is to be a gentleman. They do not have much luck in finding quality women only because they are not what the mainstream would deem attractive. My partner is not an attractive man in the looks department but he has a great physique, and is a true lover and has even been known on occasion to be romantic. It just might be that the guy you are hoping to find is one that doormen of the popular nightclubs refuses entry too. He is probably living alone but is happy and content with a productive hobby. Try to be a bit more courageous when introducing yourself to men. Remember the old cliche;"Looks are only skin deep." Good luck and happy hunting.
2007-08-22 21:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by jlsmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im good lol (haven't always been, no-one has, but now am a bit older and wiser want something abit more meaningful, like the kinda relationship you have mentioned)
*however*, I do just have one point - if a guy phoned you at 3 in the morning to tell you how much he loved you - wouldn't you think that was a bit clingy and needy and eventually lose a bit of respect for him? serious question. I think you'll find that is the reason why many guys don't do things like that.
2007-08-22 20:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah, cliche time, everyone is gonna say "right here" or "you're looking in the wrong place"
coming from a guy.....all the "good guys" are still where they've always been, its just that the bad ones out number the good ones and make the search harder.
at 22 its become kinda obvious to me that bad out numbers good. best of luck to you and the rest of us "good guys"
2007-08-22 20:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by do_sctc145 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing there all over the place. no offence but most women who complain about only getting targeted for their looks are missing the good guys because they do the same. attraction is important but over half of guys id say wud never cheat, and neither they should
2007-08-22 20:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there all over the place. Go to your local dungeons and dragons convention. Those nerds would be all over you. What you mean is where is the guy with the perfect balance of nice guy and asshole, right? I think thats me. I do most of that crap you mentioned but at the same time im no pushover.
2007-08-22 20:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are still men made for you, but you have to look out for them. you are still young and have all the time yet to look for that special one for you. go out more and meet someone or rather ask your friends to look someone for you. refferals might help but in the end you alone can say who is the one for you.
2007-08-22 21:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by bellatq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there are and we do romance the ones we care for and love --- i think we are generally taken though or we are the ones you least expect --- maybe just open your mind to possibilities and dont look too hard ---- best wishes
2007-08-22 20:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
America is a shallow society, so anybody who looks good-looking will find someone who is good-looing as well, so look good and perk up
2007-08-22 20:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by thewillprince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea ur too old for me but i got a lot of what ladies look for.
2007-08-22 20:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by jvue16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋