am 19, n neva dated ne1 b4 or bn in love..o nethin like tht. now this guy (brother's best friend) who ve never seen before live but talked on phone 4 like 3 o 4 hours each time coz he's abroade has asked me out. i dont know what to do, i know i like him n i would say yes but i need pipo with the experience to jus tell me how to deal with such situations. if i say yes jus immediately.. will i seem desperate o something? help help help lovely pipo mwaaH
2007-08-22 13:46:43 · 8 answers · asked by shaniya88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he comes to visit his family n he's going to be coming in bout 5 months. thx 4 ans so far
2007-08-22 13:56:52 · update #1
its not an english classroom people. i can write how i want unless you're saying you cant understand the words. sorry
2007-08-22 14:00:29 · update #2
being honest it would probably help if you took that extra second to make your words, actual words than 13 year olds aim jabber
2007-08-22 13:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by alongfortheride 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you can always say yes anytime you fell like.. but ask yourself this do you really want your first BF or what ever to be a long distance one? you might want your first BF to be some one who is here with you not just talk on the phone..those never work out any way . because of the whole trust issues ..i should know..
2007-08-22 13:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by The Prodigy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, learn how to spell...it's "people"....it's "with"...it's "please"
NOW...since you've been talking to him for extended periods of time (I think you mentioned 3 or 4 hours each time) and he's asked you out, I doubt very much if you'll seem "desperate" by saying "yes".
So, say "yes" and go out with him, and have a good time!
And LEARN HOW TO SPELL.
2007-08-22 13:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he date from abroad?
Tell him you want to meet in person for a cup of coffee to see if you like each other "live".
If you do...date him.
2007-08-22 13:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So does he have a crush on you? JUST DO WHAT YOUR HEART TELL'S YOU TO DO. Forget the stuff about seeming desperate, it is a bunch of crap. Just be yourself. Just set a date for when your not busy.
2007-08-22 14:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you say yes right away, THAT DOES NOT MAKE YOU SEEM DESPERATE. unless he's like a retard or something. that will def. make you look desperate. but its okay! If you like him, go for it! you only live once!
2007-08-22 13:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by LoVe.PeAcE.jOy. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him -- you will not seem desparate if you say yes immediately --- you have already talked to him --- go and enjoy his company ---- best wishes
2007-08-22 13:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, how exactly are you going to go out if he's abroad??
2007-08-22 13:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by ocean's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋