body language?
sms?
treatment?
...what? whatelse?
2007-08-22 13:05:49 · 22 answers · asked by leighn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm a girl that's why i'm asking for guys to help me find out if this guy is really into me...oke?
2007-08-22 18:38:25 · update #1
what is sms
2007-08-22 13:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are a little shy so heres a few tips: if you dont know the guy at all use the yawn trick. yawn while your not looking at him and notice if he yawns after ward. that means hes checking you out. this one works well if you have a friend w/ you to keep an eye on him so it doesnt seem like your staring at him all the time. if you know the guy its a lot simpler. if he never mentions a another girl thats a good sign. if he always tries to make eye contact thats another good one. if he starts making eye contact hold his gaze and smile, and see if he gets a little flustered, or maybe smiles back then looks away. some guys are a little more open when its just the two of you, so try to get him away from his friends. finally, NEVER tell him you like him first. it may scare him away or make him feel like he has the upper hand. flirt for as long as it takes for him to come around but try not 2 rush it. hoping u get your man... jacob
2007-08-22 20:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's this one girl I like right now, so I'll just tell you what I think may be obvious signs.
I try to maintain eye contact with her when I'm not checking her out. ;-p Alright, I love looking into her eyes when I talk to her, she's got gorgeous dark green ones.
I take any excuse I can get for a conversation with her, or even just a few words.
I've caught myself staring dreamily at her from afar, and even up close. I don't think she's caught me, but I can't be sure.
If I can get away with even a bit of physical contact, I will, such as shaking her hand when we part, or brushing her fingertips when she hands me a coffee (she works at a starbucks).
I also try to hang out with her when she's on her break, though I think I may have some competition on that part...
I don't think I treat her any better then I treat anyone else, though I try to be a gentleman either way.
That's it I guess.
2007-08-22 20:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I have very bad luck so take what I say as, well I guess the wrong way to show a girl you like them. I usually smile at them when they look over my way. Then if they smile back and I get up enough nerve I go over and say hello. Then see if they are wanting to talk a little. If not I just leave it at that and walk away. If they do talk and we seem to get along I ask them if they would like to go out some time and have dinner or see a movie. I also look at girls I like, smile at them, I am nice around them, if they are going out a door the same time as me I hold the door open for them. If we are in a bar I may buy them a drink, and have it taken over to them. That way if they are interested in meeting me they can come over and think me. If not then they can stay where they are at and just smile and say thank you, then I just leave it alone. If a guy likes a girl he is nice to her and when talking to her he tells her some about himself and then asks her questions about herself. The thing is if a guy just walks up to you and starts talking or is smiling at you from across a room chances are he kinda likes you.
2007-08-22 20:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey has he asked for the number yet? If so how often does he call? If he's really into you he's gonna drop the extras and focus wholly on you. Check to see if he's looking at other chics while you're out. Smiling means nothing. Body language, nothing. He'll call and email and text and so on if he digs you. Good luck sista.
2007-08-22 20:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Straightgogetta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because I would pay special attention to her. Such as smiling, starting a random conversation, and maybe asking her out.
2007-08-22 20:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Touching, being extra nice, and a lot of talking about your interests; but then again -- he could just be pretending..
2007-08-22 20:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by aolsuxp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we get it ur single well if a guy like you hell tell you and try to flirt with you 24/7 dats preety much it!
2007-08-22 20:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by GORGEOUS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You avoid direct confrontation on serious issues
2007-08-22 20:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if i was in to a girl i would kiss her hand everytime i see her and when i say goodbye, flirt with her alot, and compliment her loads :D thats basically it...
2007-08-22 20:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd tell her because I'd rather not think they like me when it just turns out they're just friends.
2007-08-22 20:23:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋