Something has really been bothering me. At a church I just joined the Pastor noted that some in the audiance were being too cool during the praise and whorship time. He went on to say that the person was not participating because they didn't feel worthy. Also implied the person would be found out and maybe this isn't the place for them. Later statements by others lead me to believe he was talking about me. Not sure. I usually stand and clap but the shouting and running is just not my style. I would feel like I was a fraud to do so. Is it wrong to stand and clap or do you have to do what others do. Maybe the Cathoalic Church is more my style?
2007-08-22 12:58:41 · 12 answers · asked by 1 Wild and Crazy Guy 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I don't think you should be forced to praise in such a manner. If the holy spirit isn't compelling you to do so, there is really no need to run around, scream, and pass out just to fit in.
Also NOT cool for you pastor to call people out because they are not meeting his standards. How long did you go to this church before joining? Next thing you know, he's going to be scolding you for not tithing enough.
Silly stuff like that is why I don't go to church anymore.
When I'm feeling I need that I need to hear the word, I listen to sermons online.
2007-08-22 13:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by what's the point 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the way that you describe it, the Pastor was out of line to make a statement like that. A competent Pastor should know that God looks at a person's heart and not their outward appearance. He should also be like a good Shepherd who cares for the flock and if someone seems to have a problem then he should talk to them privately and see if they need help with something.
Making a statement about a person to the congregation like you describe are the actions of someone who is a showman looking to rev up the audience and not someone with a Pastor's heart. I don't know what kind of church you belong to but at the church I go to http://www.alcf.net no one would ever make such a statement to the congregation. Instead I've heard our Pastor talk about how we should realize that for some people it was a real struggle just to show up for church. That we don't know what kind of things are going on in their lives and that we are not to judge others because God is their judge.
As to going to a Catholic church, that's between you and God. Personally I've heard that at most Catholic churches the worship is formalized and the congregation is expected to go through the motions. If I were you I'd find a church like mine that teaches the Bible, honors Jesus, is led by the Spirit, and allows it's members the freedom that Christ promises us in his Word.
2007-08-22 20:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Martin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes, thats really innappropriate, Im quite surprised. I wouldnt go complete opposite to Catholicism, but I would shop around in your area. Perhaps a nice baptist or presbyterian. Or even another of that same religion, just a different location with a different pastor. One thing is for sure, the fact people are talking about it after service is no good. The way we individually worship is very personal to each one of us. If you are getting peer pressure from the pastor of all people, I say run!
2007-08-22 20:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Loosid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cris: I am disgusted that happened to you :'( How awful! Number one God created you as an individual, and what ever way you worship him is between you and him!!! God is well pleased with you. I have been in a similar situation when I was younger in Christ, I was so hurt and devastated.....But the Lord showed me the same thing I am telling you. My heart breaks. I will be lifting you up in prayer my friend. God Bless You!
2007-08-22 20:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by Rev.Michelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's the Pastor's place to call someone out in his church like that, first of all. If you like that church, then just do what you feel. Don't do anything because you feel obligated doing. If you don't like that church, then I encourage you to find another one.
2007-08-22 20:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by sportznut05 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you do need to find another church .... however, NOT the catholic church. they are based on false doctrine... & you know that doesn't please God.
your pastor sounds a little unforgiving. he should know that sometimes people do feel underserving of God.... and we ALWAYS are.
but, you can ask for forgiveness & God is "faithful & just to forgive" you. don't ever think that you have to be good to get God.
actually, you have to get God to get good.
that's very important to remember.
you should worship God with your whole heart, mind & soul. sometimes, if you push yourself just a little in worship ... that is, get out of your comfort zone a little... you will find it feels good to have liberty in worship.
you are not suppose to do what others do .... but worship as you feel called to do.
whether you are sincere in your worship or not, others may not be able to tell, but God can.
you can't fool God.
but "a sacrifice of praise" does please Him.
do it ... even if you are not comfortable at first ... b/c you LOVE Him for who He IS.
that will greatly please God.
2007-08-22 20:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by t d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats why I stopped going, I love God but I am not one to dance/sing or clap. A similar thing happened to me. Just keep God in your heart
2007-08-22 20:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by C.C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No one should condemn you for the way you worship, look at the story of David when he danced before the Lord, his wife was judged by God for condemning him and the way that he worshiped.
2007-08-22 20:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by Cookyduster 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you dont do it cause you dont feel worthy enough let go of that thought cause none of us are worthy. in praise and worship you do what your lead to do not what others are doing.
2007-08-22 20:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by warrior*in*the*making 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Visit some Baptist churches until you find one where you fit in. Most are pretty conservative.
2007-08-22 20:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by Cee T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋