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Question

im 16 next month im turning 17 and school just started and i just think im stressing too much for my age. Like i stress over homework my grades im already struggling in geometry and i just got detention on my second day! im stressing over my job i work at mcdonalds, my looks, money for my car gas and insurance, and trying to get a boyfriend all at the same time. My stomach is always hurting me i dont know what to do my mom would just get mad at me if i told her. Again i stress too much i need help!

Answer 1

HOLD IT
IF U REALLY DON'T HAVEEEEEEEE TO WORK DON'T you r only young once and your grades will determine your future ~~~then is when u need to stress and have to be concerned so take some of those monkeys off your bk I'm telling u

Answer 2

I think you need to listen to your body because obviously its trying to tell you something. I'm not saying that this isn't normal because sweety your just getting a bite size taste of what being an adult is all about. However for your age you shouldn't be stressing this much. I admit I was stressing at your age too I also had a boyfriend, I was working at McDonald's, I was trying to lose weight, and be beautiful for my man, Pay my bills, keep a truck , and at the same time attend high school and college well keep my GPA up!Yet the truth is my parents helped me out greatly I was thankful for that. The only advice I can give you is to sit down with your mom and talk it out, dont go all psycho and start talking a mile a minute, talk to her calmly, and rationally (Make sure shes already eaten, and is in a descent mood). Moms use to be 17 too you know. Believe it or not they know what there talking about, trust me on that!!

Answer 3

Dang girl, let's see....First just learn how to NOT get detention. Ok for your homework maybe if you have dentention you can ask the teacher for some help or stay after on some days, or either ask stuff on yahoo answers because people are more than willing to help you. As for you job, just do what you gotta do and leave that alone, No worries. Boys should be the least of your trouble, Whenever you get some free time, just relax and take a tylenol maybe that can help with your tummy and take a nap. Just take one thing at a time and only handle what you KNOW you can. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 4

16 going on 17 maybe your being to demanding on yourself. Most parents would be delighted to have a daughter working at McDonald's and paying for her gas and Insurance.

About a boyfriend there are plenty of guys to go around.

About Geometry do your homework, ask homework questions and do they have a math tutor lab in your school ?

Ask questions in class.

Don't try to be cool in math class. Math isn't a spectator sport. Let the teacher know you are applying yourself.

I hope to teach math.

Some college math classes I have worked 15 to 20 hours a week doing homework, but I passed them.

My mom was under a lot of stress and she started having ulcerated colitis's she made a major and brave life choice and took meaningful action and the pain went away.

Also I know a brilliant woman with whose an Engineer. In high level college engineering classes there are few woman and the men compete for them.

Answer 5

Loose the car, loose the job and just go to school. You are trying to run an adult life too early. Your stomach hurts due to stress from the load you have placed on yourself. If there are mitigating circumstances, such as a child, then go to your county mental health clinic and ask for medication and counseling. There is no stigma to it. I have been going since my late twenty's. Don't try and do everything by your self. Get some professional help and I am certain you will slowly get better. God Loves you

Answer 6

it sounds to me like you are overloaded sweetheart. trust me you have plenty of time left for stress. you need to prioritize. forget the boyfriend he'll find you. you need to concentrate on your health. can you go to your counselour to talk about some help with geometry?? at you age i wouldnt worry to much about my looks. my daughter had a great attitude when she was in school, and she has only been out 3 yrs. she didnt worry with makeup so much, basically she would tell me. mom im going to school to work not to socialize, and so she saw that as working, and would just pull up her hair and a little mascara and sometimes not that. are you working to many hrs. at mc donalds bcuz if so you can cut back. are ur parents helping you at all?? or are you having to pay for everything? if you let this push you over the edge, it will. so you have to make some choices, and try to pare down where you can. ms. tammy

Answer 7

Well, for starters, stop getting detention! See if you can find a smart kid in class that would help you out with the geometry. As for the car, gas, and ins. Find out how much gas you use in two weeks. (how many times you filled up), then divide your ins. bill in half, add it up, and set that much aside EVERY paycheck (if you get paid every two weeks) for your car stuff. Say you get paid on Friday, then take the money for two weeks of gas, and half of your insurance bill, and set it aside for these next couple weeks. It will end up balancing out, and hopefully your stress will slowly dissipate. As for the stomach pain, definitely talk to your mom and/or doctor.

Answer 8

calm down tell your your teacher if it continues to help you in your classes. your school has got to have a guideiess counselor. make a meeting with her/him.I had the same problem last year. if your car is to much why don't you take the bus to school. That will save you about $50- $60 a week. if insurance is to much then maybe progressive will be cheaper if you don't have it.If your mom is a good mom she should understand and try to help you enplane it to her comely. Use a stress ball it can really really help.

I hope i did help you

Answer 9

Sounds like you are experiencing normal life adjustment. You should get the stomach issue checked out to make sure you aren't having something medical going on but also you should check out the net and see if you can find some relaxing techniques to help you ease up a little. These things in life are managable but sometimes it takes a little help to learn to not let stuff get you too worked up.

Answer 10

You might need to be checked for an ulcer, which can be caused by stress! Also try to relax! You have your whole life ahead of you, and believe me, there will be plenty to stress about later. Enjoy being young & single, & just do the best you can!!!