This morning my boyfriend told me that I have terrible muscle tone in the mid section of my body?
What is that supposed to mean? ) : ): I dont have babies.I am 110 pounds.I am 5'5.You can look at my Yahoo 360 profile,i have pictures there.What do you think?Should I be careful? I met this guy online in June.We have been dating eachother ever since.Lately he has?
began telling me that he wants me to move to his city. We live only 30 min away from each other.I dont have my own apartment because I have to help my grandmother,she wants me here.He has been looking for apartments in his city for me.The rent is really high where he lives.Why does he want me to just pick up and move there to be with him.The only help that he has offered is to rent a car and help move my belongings from here to there.He said that I am always coming to his place and he doesnt want to come to mine because it is too far.Could he be abusive?
Is this a warning?
Should I be carefull?
Does this mean that he wants to get married?Should I be carefull?
I'm torn. I have been dating this man for about two months now.Lately he has been telling me that he wants me to go to Arizona in November to meet his family,friends,everyone.H... and I live here in California and he wants to move to New York with him next year.He asked me last weekend if I can have children.I'm a little hesitant because he has a really BADDD temper.He got mad at me and punched the wall.We went on an outing to the park. I told him that I needed to go to the bathroom.When I got back from the bathroom he showed me his camera.He had followed me and took pictures of me as I went to the bathroom aal the way until I went inside.I remember stopping to talk to a lady about her dog,he took pictures of that too.Am I jumping to conclusions or should I be careful
2007-08-22
09:24:46
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I remember responding to an earlier question about this same relationship...you provided more details and asked a different question this time though and I'm now leaning in a different direction about this relationship. What you said in this message paints a totally different picture!
In my previous response to you, I said I didn't see any indications of abusive behavior in what you said, but I was thinking "stalking" and physical abuse...I still don't think a fist through the wall is necessarily a sign that someone could become physically abusive but combined with the details in this message, I'm now seeing the possibility of future physical abuse as well as the existing signs of emotional manipulation and abuse (with a little verbal abuse thrown in to maximize the effectiveness of the emotional control).
This time you asked if God uses our intuition to talk to us and I say ABSOLUTELY. The trick to being able to identify the factors that are influencing your intuition...to separate out the advice that's coming from God from the other possible sources...or perhaps more accurately, learning to recognize God's voice amonst all the other voices that are affecting your feelings and perceptions! This isn't something that happens automically, you have to learn how to recognize God's voice or you risk being deceived by your own fears/weaknesses or even outside influences that could exist (the voice of the devil or "evil" if you will).
Do you read the bible? Do you know what God thinks about you, how he defines love? Read I Corinthians 13 to learn how God defines love.
I've read it and almost everything you mentioned in this message indicates that this man does NOT love you. He may be thinking about marriage but that doesn't mean he truly loves you. Comments about your "terrible muscle tone", his failure to respect or support your commitment to your grandmother, his unwillingness to come to your place because it is "too far", even punching the wall all sound like the product of a desire to control NOT a desire to love.
Only you can decide what's right for you and I pray that you will seek God's wisdom directly. ...but I can tell you that I've been in this relationship more than once and even made the mistake of ignoring my intuition and marrying a man that wanted only to break me down and control me. RUN, RUN AWAY...NOW...that's what my intuition would be screaming if I were in a relationship with the man you described!
2007-08-22 10:19:32
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answered by KAL 7
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What does your intuition tell you is the answer to this question?
But seriously, this sounds like a major control freak. He might be violent or not, but in any case he's going to try to take absolute control over your life in any way possible. I'd avoid it like the devil if I were you. Drop him, get a cell phone and keep a gun beside the bed. This does not sound like the type of person who just lets things go. I could be wrong, but from what you said, I think you already know it's not going to work out.
2007-08-22 09:33:49
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answered by darkmalcontent 1
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muscle tone and fat are different. u can have flat stomach but that has nothing to do with muscle tone.
anyway, intuition is more like instinct. animals have this "intuition" too.
cause ive woken in the middle of the night feeling like im being watched, flipped on the light and theres a big spider on my wall... if god woke me up to tell me that, then he needs a life.
2007-08-22 09:29:37
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answered by Chippy v1.0.0.3b 6
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Always listen to your intuition. If you have a little, funny feeling something is wrong, then something is wrong. You need to be careful. there is never an emergency in God, so there is in reality no reason for you to feel rushed in any manner or pressured by his thought, for it is not his business to run the show, just because he thinks or speaks. Let him prove himself in time before you make changes in your life.
2007-08-22 09:42:45
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answered by ? 6
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Always listen to your intuition. It is there to work in your highest good and will not steer you in the wrong direction. My initial reaction to your post is "Don't do it!" You already have the outward signs of future dysfunction: bad temper, hitting a wall, controlling behaviors. Combine that with what your gut is saying, and you will have your answer.
2007-08-22 09:42:20
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answered by ? 5
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You asked this already, which makes me think you're full of it. If you want to deceive people, do it in a section that the same people aren't on all day.
Different Username, Same Exact Question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=An93LExE3XhwmZaUbQG39p7ty6IX?qid=20070822101232AA6rnSc&show=7#profile-info-UbHnbxWYaa
2007-08-22 09:31:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, I do think God uses our intuition to talk to us, and I think your gut instincts on this guy being bad news are absolutely right.
2007-08-22 09:39:32
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answered by daisyk 6
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My mailman uses intuition to talk to dogs. I believe he exists.
2007-08-22 09:31:32
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answered by Anonymous
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i think you should stay on your medications and possible ask your doctor to increase your dosage.
2007-08-22 09:32:50
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answered by Anonymous
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HOLY CRAP!! Did your therapist kill herself during one of your sessions?
2007-08-22 09:32:32
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answered by Anonymous
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