okay, im a 22 year old male in the NAVY, we were together 3 years, i loved her deeply and she always told me the same, but when i was in bootcamp she cheated on me when i was away and we broke it off. when i came home a month ago i found a bag on my porch with all my stuff in it, a watch, a ton i cothes i bought myself in chicago with her, (of course my ring i gave her or all the clothes i bought her are not in there) as you can tell she was very high maintenance and probobly a gold digger the whole time. i have a WHOLE LOT OF SH!T of sentimental value letters sent went i was away pictures etc bagged up likewise, should i return the favor and throw the SH!T on her porch as well? im confused need tips :)
2007-08-22 08:45:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ohh! you guys are so evil! lol
2007-08-22 08:51:03 · update #1
do the right thing and dump her stuff on her doorstep too!...at least she took the time to drop off yours!
2007-08-22 10:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put all her stuff in a box or bag. Don't just dump her stuff on the porch like she did. Deliver it yourself during a time you know she'll be home. When she opens the door calmly tell her, "I thought you might like to have your stuff back as well. Except I have the decency to tell you to your face, even though you don't deserve it." Then walk away. That'll show her! ;-)
2007-08-22 15:53:17 · answer #2 · answered by LimboChamp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the bigger person here. Let her know you have her things and how would she like you to return them to her. Fold them neatly, wrap them up. This will make her feel like dirt, especially if she was high maintenance. Then have nothing more to do with her.
2007-08-22 15:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could return the gesture and lower yourself to her level! Or, you could just burn the lot whilst sipping a nice long cold beer and reminding yourself what a lucky escape you have just had!
Then move on and enjoy life...have a good one!
2007-08-22 15:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the high road.
Anything with any financial value,
- dump on her porch.
Anything purely 'sentimental`.
- Trash it, (sending it to her would look needy.)
2007-08-22 16:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by Irv S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste any more time on her than necessary. Take the higher road and just toss all that "junk" into the garbage and move on.
2007-08-22 15:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be the better person and give them back to her. Don't stoop to her level. If you don't want to see her in person get a mutual friend to take them to her for you.
2007-08-22 15:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by gorgeous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, listen we live and learn she didn't love that much because as soon as you left she kept on with her life.Take her stuff to where she is at and hold your chin up..... GOOD LUCK
2007-08-22 15:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by gipsy46 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sell that ****!
dont give it back to her
unless u think ull get back 2gether
2007-08-22 15:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by BRUINS #1 FAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.. just toss em. Don't lower yourself to her level. Live and learn.. and Thank you!!
2007-08-22 15:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋