We have dated for several months and have even talked about living together. I care about him but not nearly as much as he does about me. All I hear is "I love you". He is a good person, BUT I am over 30 years old, I have just come through a divorce and bankruptcy- I am struggling to get back on my feet and am thinking strongly about planning my future, saving, buying a house, and retirement. My boyfriend works at a fast food place a few days a week. I haven't asked him how much he makes, but it can't be much. He saves nothing and spends it all on video games and DVD's. On top of all of that, he doesn't have a drivers license. He is very immature in most ways, but when it comes to treating me with love and respect, he is great.
There is also another guy that says he "loves" me... Who has loads of money, savings,etc. But I don't "love" back. I almost feel like it would be worth it to give him a shot. I need a future, but I'm lost. I guess it's love or money. Advice?
2007-08-22 07:12:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anastasia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you truely love this guy you are with you will help him get on his feet and set some life goals with you...but if you don't love him and you don't want to deal with someone who needs to grow up then I say give the other guy a chance or even find someone who is on the same page as you in life
Best wishes to you
2007-08-22 07:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by Quality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the guy with no goals. If he can't take care of himself, he won't be able to take care of you! As for the guy with money, money isn't everything. Don't be in a rush to get into another relationship! If you want to give it a shot, go ahead. Just don't SETTLE for just anyone
2007-08-22 14:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by Les 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart money and things aren't everything talk to him about it in an nice sweet way maybe he wants to be better but just doesnt know how help him if you really love him and feel he's worth the time and effort
2007-08-22 14:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't settle for either one of them. Find someone that has the same goals, values and priorities that you do AND that you are in love with.
2007-08-22 14:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can't always help.
2007-08-22 14:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by ur@Wrdo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off.
2007-08-22 14:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋