Question for the experts or anybody good advice/opinion!?

Question

I'll keep this as short as reasonably possible!

A few months ago I met a guy from Myspace. I'm 32. He is 28. We slept together the first night. He told me I was his first. He is anti-social, very shy, has never had a girlfriend and smokes a lot of pot. He also lives w/ his alcholic mother and has no dreams or ambitions. He also barricades himself into his room on the weekends and plays some online game called 2nd Life.
Anyway, about 3 weeks into our affair he told me that he had been talking to another girl in Virginia and he thought that maybe he had fallen in love with her. I won't get into it, but he seems to live in Fantasy land.
Anyway, on August 12th I decided to break it off with him. We exchanged nasty emails. On August 15th I was on Myspace and his headline read "Chris you crazy *****..haha amusingly crazy." I didn't respond. Why would he do that?
Then on Friday August 17th he sends me one email that says "hahaha"....this time I responded but he didn't respond back!

Well on Monday my friend online said he has been receiving emails from a fake "myspace" account. They say stuff like "she is a c**t!"....sent an old blog I had on dating that was from my old myspace account.

Okay so what is he doing? Why is he behaving this way? Is he trying to get me back, trying to get revenge? What?

I've been ignorning him except for my one response on Friday which he never responded to! Makes me wonder what's up with him.

When we were together he'd tell me things like, "you are the most fun I've ever ever had....I could be inside you morning, noon and night and never ever get bored...."

He also said I was way too intimidating!

It makes no sense to me as he said he had feelings for another girl in Virginia. I am beginning to think that was all a lie and I was he is real target the entire time we were seeing each other.

PS - When we'd have sex....he would not allow me to really go to sleep or stop. He would want to do it for up to 12, 13 hours!

He also would take off his condom.

Answer 1

Sounds like you picked a real wierd one there!! Just ignore him and his emails. You can block his name, and delete him from your 'myspace'. You can report hime to the admin of 'myspace' as a nusiance.

You could call him and ask him why he is being this way - - - but you probably wouldnt get a straight answer.

You said it right- - in the beginning - - He lives in a Fantasy world- - - just accept that and get on with your life, and stop worrying about it. . . . .

If he tries to contact you locally, then you should ask him politely to just leave you alone. If he starts to stalk you. . . .wait around a corner for him to walk past, and kick his butt!! I am sure he will get the message then !

Answer 2

I do not wish to say " I told you so " but we did
the world is a VERY dangerous place and you should feel lucky that a few obsenities and the loss of a relationship are all of the consequences this time.
He could have videotaped your encounter ,stolen your identity or planted you in his rose garden.PLEASE for your sake and your family and friends be more carefull about all of your encounters on and of line

Answer 3

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Answer 4

He told you everything you need to know. He is a 32 year virgin, looser pot head with no money, no life and he thinks he can play games with you. What else do you need to know? Forget him, just ignore any e-mails and go on like you never met him. If he shows up at your house or harrasses you in person, call the cops.

Answer 5

You can change your email address or set a block to his email address.

If you feel he may be a threat to you call the police and register a complaint. Later if you need to have a restraining order it will be easier.

Do not respond to him. That is exactly what he expects. He is a bully.

Answer 6

I'd change my regular email address, and close the Myspace account.

No fun getting after you if you're not "there" to see it.

This guy is ..... well, a loser, at least, maybe more than that. Get away from him.

Answer 7

OK he has major problems. Please never ever sleep with a person you don't know. Why would you share something as personal as your body with a stranger?

Chalk this whole fiasco up to bad judgment and stop giving him any attention at all, including worrying about why he does stuff. The quicker you get him out of your thoughts and life , the better.

Answer 8

If you feel threatened call 911. He will probably fade away but he may be obsessed with you being his lack of contact with real women.
Close your MySpace Site and change you email address.

Have no communication with him untill he get over it.


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On the other hand,

If you are realy that desperate.

He might be good for another screw or two.

If you don't mind the risk of getting murdered.
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Answer 9

Block his email address and tell him not to contact you. I think he is trying to get 'revenge'. He is filled with anger and resentment so just stay clear of him - he's a nasty piece of work.

Answer 10

well just block him, change your email or mark him as spam, if he is giving you trouble on myspace alert Tom, if he continues harassing you you CAN alert the authorities for sexual harassment, but do not go overboard with malicious lies