anybody had to deal with their loved one going away for 30 days in jail?? I will be the sole caretaker of my children...a 18 month old and a 9 yr old...I hate the sleeping alone at night...how am i going to deal?
2007-08-22 05:49:22 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Sexy Mama of 2 cuties♥ 7 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
he drove on a suspended license..he is not that bad of a guy
2007-08-22 06:24:04 · update #1
my husband drives truck all over the country and is gone for weeks at a time, 30 days is not such a long time, it may be a little lonely, but you can visit [be careful of the collect calls, they get expensive, here they start at $6.00 each] find things to do besides sitting around brooding about him being gone, take the kids swimming or to the zoo etc to take your mind off things. you will do fine for this long, just make sure to let him know not to get into trouble again, it is not fair to you and the kids...hang in there
2007-08-22 05:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One always reaches down inside themselves during difficult times to "make it through" the troubled times.
My suggestion is that when he does get out....you let him know what effects his incarceration had on you and your family.
Maybe that will make him think twice before making a poor decision in the future.
Best wishes.
2007-08-22 13:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by KC V ™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep yourself busy..my boyfriend has been in jail for 3 months so far and we have a 2 year old..ive been taking care of him by myself and time has gone by soooo fast. just hang in there girl. the lonely nights aint so bad just keep telling yourself that he'll be home soon. my man wont be home probably till october. so you can imagine how i feel.
2007-08-22 13:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by stephnjordan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish you the best, it is a shame that his problems will hurt you. There should be a way he could be punished without hurting you at all, that would be a fairer form of justice.
2007-08-22 14:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sad how people get locked up for victimless crimes, but I guess that's the kind of fascism we gotta deal with.
2007-08-22 13:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by mom4peace 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's nothing.
Why don't you find a boyfriend who isn't a criminal? Who would be a better influence on your children?
2007-08-22 13:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
invite his probation officer over
kill two birds with one stone
no sleeping alone
b/f gets out earlier
2007-08-22 12:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Who cares?
2007-08-22 12:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
IF you truly Love him, GO JOIN HIM!!! MY wife did. We had a BLAST, "tag-teaming" the guards with all Our Hell-Raising!!!
2007-08-22 13:06:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
sounds like you have a real winner of a boyfriend......
2007-08-22 13:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by john doe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋