Watz wrong wit me?
Im 14 years old
im about 2 start skool but i sleep alot
when i get up im dizzy and evrything goes black for a min
i just got off a serious relationship
i cry when i see my ex's pics
i only drink water
i work out from day to day
i hav alot less periods
i dont hav any food cravings
i dont usally go out cuz im at home helping
i lose alot of energy fast
i stay up think about my ex at night
im afraid to go to sleep at night
i always argue wit my mom everyday
im not talkin 2 my friends as i once did
im very slender now then from 4 weeks ago
4 weeks ago my BF broke up wit me
WATZ WRONG WITH ME am i depressed?
2007-08-22 04:50:09 · 11 answers · asked by skater chic 08 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
sweetie, my daughter is about your age... so as a mother i want to advise you to not compromise your health because of this failed relationship. punishing yourself (your health) is not going to get him back.
this may be hard to hear, BUT he may not even know or care that you are experiencing all of this heartache.
AND i'm willing to guess that you and your mother are arguing about your health - your relationship w/ your bf & the fact that you're isolating yourself from your friends.
get out, get some fresh air & eat something.. you may start to feel better
good luck
2007-08-29 09:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by a pretty pretty gyrl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are not a big thing..especially at your age. However, your habits are important at your age. You have to eat in or to feel better. Just drinking water is not good enough. You are burning off far too many calories and not replacing them by eating. So eat as much as you can..especially before working out..and then after to build up what you have lost. Your mind seems to be telling you to eat and do what is necessary to keep going..but you refuse yourself..or deprive yourself of that stuff much needed. You need a dose of Vitamin-B-Complex to boost your energy levels and your eating habits will return..So best take a dosage asap. Try to forget the vacation affair..put it down to experience..and next time..who knows..what doesn't get us..teaches us. You might be down in the mouth right now..but it will pass..give it time..and take the vits it will help you in a natural way. The rest will follow suit. Hope this helps.
2007-08-22 05:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by upyerjumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Serious relationship and you are 14.....you need to realize thatt you will have tons of "serious relationships" before you even get out of high school. You are depressed and need to talk to a professional. Tell a parent or trusted family member or trusted school counselor what's been going on and they can find someone to help you.
The not eating is very serious, you are skipping periods and feeling weak, it's becuase you need to eat.
No guy is ever worth you ruining your health for, once you realize this you will start getting better.
Good Luck!
2007-08-22 04:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Emily ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey you answered one of my questions before. We are in the same exact situation. I dont know what to do either. My bf didnt break up with me yet. i feel soo depressed. im trying to hold on to him. i need him in my life. i am 16 yrs old. i cry when i see my bf's number on my caller id from days ago. i stay up all night thinking of how i should try and help our relationship. its so frusterating.i cant eat either. everytime i talk to him hes like i want to end it. but i beg and cry hysterically and he calms me down but hes like a whole different person now. im scared jsut like you. if you want to talk my email is heather231223@yahoo.com
maybe this will hlp since we are both struggling with the same issue. i totally sypathize with you. good luck, best wishes.
*************Edit: my boyfriend broke up with me, ive been hysterically crying ever since 4:00 i hate my life.******
2007-08-22 07:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*i get dizzy and everythin goes black
*i cry when i see my ex's pic
*got off serious relationship
*no food cravings
*i don't go out cuz im home helping
*i stay up at night
*afraid to sleep
*i argue with my mom alot
*bf broke up with u
GEE I WONDER WHAT THE PROBLEM IS????
ANYONE WANNA TAKE A GUESS HERE???
CUZ I SURE DONT' KNO!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-22 04:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Leila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're describing my day to day life about 2 years ago hun. and yes i think it is depression. anxiety depression to be more specific. have a word with your gp, mine went un-noticed and got really bad, don't leave it, thats the worst thing you can do above all else.
2007-08-22 04:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek some counseling, it will make you feel better to talk to a neutral, unbiased person and if you are suffering from depression they will be able to diagnose it.
2007-08-29 12:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by beautifulgirl2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take of yourself, your worth more than you think right now,you are 14yrs. old, you have your whole life ahead, boy friends will come and go then someone who is right for just you will come along,and you will be happy.
God Bless
2007-08-22 04:59:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This actually happens to me sometime try to check what kind of Messenger you have if it is old I dont know if it is new maybe its your contact not you
2016-05-19 22:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by oralia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression and your not eating..sounds like school, your friends and a schedule is what you need...
oooohhh and EAT something
2007-08-29 04:48:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋