my bf says he doesnt *** when we have sex then when we are done i have a lot of slimy gooey fluid between my legs. he is the first guy i have had sex with and i dont know if he is lying or if those are my own juices. i am not on birth control because my mother wont let me and i am really trippin about getting pregnant! how do i know if its his or mine?
2007-08-22 01:12:49 · 7 answers · asked by becky99201 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
He's probably lying, but even if he isn't the withdrawal method is the least effective form of birth control. If you do not want to get pregnant you need to use another form. If he won't use a condom (he's a jerk if he won't) then you need to look into the contraceptive film. Or at least use a spermicidal foam or jelly. Those are available at the drug store. You should be using a condom though plus a foam or jelly. The condom will protect you from STDs as well as pregnancy.
2007-08-22 03:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrap it up girl, don't have sex without a condom if you don't want to risk getting pregnant or stds. And it's most likely both of you that you're feeling there. Your bf already has some precum before sex even starts. Unless you want to regret something do the right thing and take it upon yourself to be safe.
2007-08-22 12:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by xliz711x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, your bf is either incredibly stupid or just trying to sleep with you. Guy always produce *** or precum. Second, you will be more wet than usual afterwards because your body produces lubricants but not that much. This guys is totally taking advantage of you. Get some education on sex before you have it.
2007-08-22 10:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Cash, Gage and Jax's Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't have to have your mom's permission to get on birth control. Get your butt down to planned parenthood and get some! Or, tell that lying little bf of your to use a condom. Oh, he doesn't like them? Tolo f'ing bad! You know what else he won't like? Having a screaming, flailing, baby to raise for the next 18-24 years. No partying, no college, full time job. Guess what? I don't know him personally, but I bet he leaves before the baby is born, and leaves you all alone to take care of it yourself? Are you prepared for that? I am sorry if this seems mean, but honey, you have got to look out for yourself. If you are not prepared to have a baby, then you must NOT have unprotected sex. Period. You have to look out for YOU. Please make a smart decision.
2007-08-22 11:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by Amy B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He can still get you pregnant with pre-ejaculate. However, sperm has a much stronger smell than vaginal discharge and a completely different consistency. It sounds like you need to be informed on sex ed and condoms to me, if you can't even answer your own question!
2007-08-22 10:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes most likely lying.
could be a little of both of you.
you can still get pregnant from pre-***
you need to use some form of birth control if you dont want ot become pregnant.
and if you need a parents permission to use it then clearly your way to oyung to have sex!!
2007-08-22 09:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by Awesome Rockin Mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's lying, and you are on your way to having to bear a child to a boy that will lie to you if you don't smarten up.
2007-08-22 13:20:31 · answer #7 · answered by Brassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋