Diffusing Energy?

Question

Ok, I got a friend who's a virgin, never had a girlfriend and never even been kissed before. Me and a friend of mine are showing him our way of how to get girls interested in him, using his sense of humor (this guys hilarious, he just doesn't realize it or is just to shy to realize it). Anyways, we're at a resturant and my virgin friend really wants to talk with the waitress that's serving us so the plan was let him do most of the talking so he can try and seal the deal.

It didn't turn out that way. My friend who's had tons of girls sitting at the table with us has this energy level that I've never seen anyone stop. He has all this energy: he dances at the table, raises his voice and uses his sense of humor to the best of his ability to snag the girls attention and ultimately try and win the girl in his favor away from my virgin friend.

In the end, my virgin friend got to ask the girl back to his place (to our surprise) and it didn't work. But how do we diffuse the friends energy?

Does anyone have anything to add? anything at all?

Answer 1

No, that pretty much covered it all. Read it again, and you'll find the first answer was spot on. There is no way to control people. Therefore, if you don't want the competition, leave him at home.

Answer 2

Sure it isn't diffused energy, thought you'd be more zen with your topic... rrrr... ether way thats just a matter of him not knowing any other way to interact with females, which I'm pretty sure works in his favour because of this. But thats typical behaviour of a person who is excited by something, so it would only make sense that he would react the way he always has. Usually with fellas like that there isn't much companionship in the brotherhood if you know what I mean. That he see's ladies no matter what, as free game..... I wouldn't sujest bring him along again, thats a bit intimading and I'm more then sure he doesn't know yet how to use that to his benifit. Besides that it wasn't a good showing of his humility to act that way.... sort of show-offish, because were not beyond free-choice....