I finally told my Ex That I am carrying his child. He was suppose to get married in november I believe but he have been spending alot of time at my house since I told him my secret and he is not mad at all, he is acting like we never broke up, he is doing everything for me and being really sweet. his girl called my house the other day cursing the sh!t out of me because she think im taking him away from her, but she was the one that broke up with him after he told her about me and the baby. I didn't want any of this top happen this is why I wanted to wait and tell him after the wedding. Now he thinks God saved him and that we should get back together. what am I suppose to do about his girlfriend or fiance or ex,a at this moment i'm not even sure whats going on. I do know that i am confused and stressed out ever since I told him and i've been having alot of cramps, and the girl keeps calling me. help?
2007-08-20 13:35:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
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2007-08-20 13:36:20 · update #1
ocobride, I am not a scum bag, he is not a scumbag. we were together for 7 years and decided it just wasn't going to work. I found out i was pregnant 2 months later i am now 5 months and he is suppose to ghet married in november but the wedding is cancled because the girl does not want to be in a relationship with a man who has a child that is not hers.
2007-08-22 05:47:14 · update #2
If you really love each other and he wants to support you and your baby then I say go with it. I would tell her to stop calling you or you will file a complaint with the police about harrassment. Maybe even change your number.
If he was with you that recently then it sounds like they didn't knwo each other enough to get married anyway and if he feels it's a blessing then maybe it is.
2007-08-20 13:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by Reba 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all im not going to research yahoo answers to get your life story... this question is in the wrong category anyway. none of us can make this decision for you.. it is this guys responsibility to provide for the baby no matter what you or the ex-fiance think. you would have been rediculous to wait until AFTER the wedding.. thank god you didn't. anyway theres nothing you can do about her- id hate you too (and him). Although - how long were they dating before getting married.. either NOT THAT LONG or he cheated on her with you. that marriage shouldn't happen, and this scumbag needs to just be with you because you sound good for each other
2007-08-20 21:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋