and i just got treated for it...i have no idea where it could've came from since i've been having sex with only one person for over a year now (w/ condoms). i told the person i've been sleeping with & he has a pretty casual attitude about it, he says he's not mad or upset at all because it's curable. is this a normal reaction to finding out something like this? i expected him to be just as upset as i was.
2007-07-30 14:54:08 · 11 answers · asked by Nacho Chacho 7 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
ok everyone keeps blaming the guy for giving it to you...which his reaction does imply is a possibility. you said you used condoms while sleeping with him....was it EVERY SINGLE TIME? if not then yeah there's a big chance he gave it to you. if you did use them every time then it's a much much lower chance. condoms usually protect from chlamydia and gonnorhea...and contrary to what someone above wrote they also greatly reduce the risk of transmission of HIV (latex only for that tho) so if you did use condoms with him every time you could have had it since the relationship before him if you had unprotected sex with that individual (you didn't say if you had symptoms or not, which chlamydia doesn't always have symptoms). take all these things into consideration before you just assume he's a scumbag...even tho i'd hate to admit i kind of agree with everyone's assumptions that his reaction leans towards him being guilty. you should make him get tested as well to make sure you're not passing it back and forth if you do stay with him in the end. best of luck to ya!
2007-07-30 17:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so happy you got treated for this because this can cause sterility later in life. Is your boyfriend also getting treatment? And I really hate to tell you this , but his demeanor is showing you that he is cheating and someone gave this to him and if you continue to have sex with him, he will continue to reinfect you and it could be worse next time. Remember too that the HIV virus is so small is too can pass right through a condom and so can the HPV . He would have been highly upset blaming you for cheating on him if he didn't already know where he gave this present to you from. Drop him and move on and thank you lucky stars that is all you got.
2007-07-30 15:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by billies35 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey...STDs don't just show up...The incubation period for genital chlamydial infections is about 1 to 3 weeks. SOOO...he is either messing around, or he has had it and has not gotten treated!
TELL HIM THIS: Untreated chlamydial infections in men can lead to epididymitis, an inflammation of the coiled tubes in the back of the testicles. This can result in testicular swelling, pain, and ultimately even infertility.
That might make him go see his doc....
2007-07-30 16:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by catherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be mad either especially if I gave you the disease.
You need to leave this person alone - he's nasty and the claps could turn out to be the least of what he'll give yah if yah don't.
2007-07-30 16:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by true_value5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you have figured it out by now that you got it from your partner. You need to talk to him about it and adress the situation. Remember, he had sex with someone else, contracted a disease and passed it on to you. You can't let him get away with this.
2007-07-30 17:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that character a male or lady...if its a male identity say no except hes sticking it in his penis if its a woman may well be hazard if the release gets on the rag and then the different man or woman makes use of it in there pubic section.
2016-10-13 04:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because you got it from him. That why he not mad at you. Work it out
2007-07-30 14:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not upset about it because he is the one who gave it to you........tell him to kick rocks.......and it sounds like him probably knew he had it.
2007-07-30 16:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Yak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason he wasnt mad he was the carrier and gave it to you my honest opion?
2007-07-30 17:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's sleeping around on u and the other girl he's sleeping with has it too.Don't be stupid hunny.Find someone else.
2007-07-30 15:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by brooke s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋