what will happen if i have two sex partners. like I did it with boy1 at day 1 and did it with boy2 at day 2??

Question

please note me on safer sex.
what should i do?
what kind of medical check up should i have?
it's my first time about that...please set aside first the issue of my moral conscience

Answer 1

Aside from the issues of safe sex, moral conscience, social unacceptability, and an increased risk of STD -- nothing will happen other than you had sex with 2 boys in 2 days.

The issue of safe sex: that's a no-brainer, you should already know about that. Getting pregnant in a month that you had multiple partners can create a terrible game of "who's the daddy?" so be very careful there.

The issue of morality: there's a self-esteem question as well as a moral question that only you can address.

The issue of social acceptability: There are names people are called when they do this and those may hurt your feelings. Society frowns on this sort of thing. If it is your personality to be this woman (the one called those names), then you will have to learn to accept that and move on.

The issue of increased STD risk: Your risk of contracting an STD increases with each new partner but has little to do with the time between partners. 2 partners in one day or 2 partners in one year brings the same risks.

With those aforementioned considerations: is there really any difference between having two partners in 2 days and having two partners over 20 years? It's still a total count of 2 and is serial monogamy of a sort. The thing is, it's an indicator that your total count could go very high if this is you're "style" and not some once-in-a-lifetime decision.

Only you can address whether your behavior is acceptable to you.

Answer 2

I do not know how old you are but here are some answers to your questions....

First of all the more people that you sleep with the more of a risk you are at for catching STD's or HIV. If you are sleeping with two different men then you must understand that they too may be sleeping with just more then you. That means that if none of you are having protected sex then you are basically sleeping with everyone they are sleeping with.

It only takes on time of having sex to catch something. The best thing to ensure that you dont catch anything is not to have sex. From there you must know your partner. I would not sleep with anyone that I did not know and trust. I dont mean I trust them because I like them I mean I trust them with your life. If you choose to sleep with more than one partner then you must take steps to protect yourself and them.

First- ALWAYS use condoms. No questions about it always use them. I would also ensure that you are on some sort of birth control to help with the chances of you getting pregnant. I would also be very careful if you practice oral sex as well. Some STD's you can catch in your mouth as well.

You should be going to your OB/GYN at least once a year. If you do not have medical insurance then seek out a planned parenthood in your town or something along those lines. As a women you need to be having check ups every year to ensure your healthy and safty. At that time they can and should check for STD's.

Answer 3

as far as your morals go everyone is different and who cares what they think. its your body to do with what you want. you are the one who will live with any choices you make so you make your own rules according to the kind of person you want to be. i look back on mistakes i made when i was young and there are some i wish i could change(im 35) your health is another issue altogether.first and foremost,CONDOMS!!!I have 3 teenage sons and i keep a supply on hand where they can get them without having to ask me for them and they do use them thank god. this is your best defense to staying healthy aside from not having sex at all. birth control pills or another form of contraceptive should be used too along with the condoms.theres a bunch of different kinds.shots that you get every 3 months or a spermicide cream you can buy over the counter works well.whatever you decide on,if you didnt use a condom during this,get checked out at your health department.its usually free and most have privacy rules that they dont tell even your parents.they will also counsel you on all of your options for birth control so get in there and be safe from now on.if you feel you are old enough to have sexual partners then you are also old enough to take the time to care for yourself and it only takes one time to get pregnant or catch a disease that would be with you forever.coacht gives good advice i think .

Answer 4

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Yes, it is possible. The body would have to release two eggs that month, which would not be the result of just having intercourse with two different men. Each man's sperm would be present and have the opportunity to fertilize each egg. One egg could be fertilized by father A and the other by father B. A previous answer is incorrect, because only identical twins are the result of one sperm. After fertilization, the egg then splits in two resulting in "carbon copies". Fraternal twins are the result of two eggs, fertilized by two sperm. It has happened, and is probably not as rare as we think it is though it is not a common occurence (just because the incidence of twins is so low, and even lower is the number of mothers who conceive them after having slept with multiple partners in a short timeframe). I hope this answers your question.

Answer 5

It is possible and has happened on many occasions. "Among fraternal twins, in rare cases, the eggs are fertilized at different times with two or more acts of sexual intercourse, either within one menstrual cycle (superfecundation) or, even more rarely, later on in the pregnancy (superfetation). This can lead to the possibility of a woman carrying fraternal twins with different fathers (that is, half-siblings). This phenomenon is known as heteropaternal superfecundation. One 1992 study estimates that the frequency of heteropaternal superfecundation among dizygotic twins whose parents were involved in paternity suits was approximately 2.4%."

Answer 6

Liza,

Most likely: nothing will happen.

However, if you are going to be sexually active you need to start taking responsibility for your actions.

Answer 7

if you use a condom you're fine, it's not about how many partners you had, it's about the sexual acts you engage in, so as long as you use protection for everything, you're fine.

Answer 8

I'd get tested for STD's & HIV/AIDS if it were me.