Without coming on too hard..... what should i do...? <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<

Question

alright, im not going on a real date, but me and a guy friend are bringing one of my close girl friends and a girl i really like to a lake to go boating and swimming and that.

this is going to be my first time hanging out with this girl for nearly a year, and her other friend already let her know that i like her and i was really fun to hang out with. so she began messaging me online and i invited her out to the lake.

after the day is over though what can i do to really let her know im into her without coming on too hard? (after all, this is only the first time seeing her for a long time.) i would just like some thoughts.

thanks.

Answer 1

its a lake.... walk around with her. sit close to her by the camp fire. easy stuff like that. tend to her every need (u know when she hungry, thirsty, cold) just do it slowly, calmly, and with style. be cool. dont like stay attached to her for the entire trip. give her space, but you will know when she needs you, directly and indirectly. i think she'll make it quite obvious dont rush. she's coming, so thats a big plus already. dont trip. the nightlife is gonna be cool. have her enjoy it. then when ur about to leave, ask if you can see her again. make sure you tell her directly how much you enjoyed the day as well

Answer 2

Just tell her that you really enjoyed youself, would like to see her again sometime.