Without coming on too hard..... what should i do...?

Question

alright, im not going on a real date, but me and a guy friend are bringing one of my close girl friends and a girl i really like to a lake to go boating and swimming and that.

this is going to be my first time hanging out with this girl for nearly a year, and her other friend already let her know that i like her and i was really fun to hang out with. so she began messaging me online and i invited her out to the lake.

after the day is over though what can i do to really let her know im into her without coming on too hard? (after all, this is only the first time seeing her for a long time.)

well i just would like to have an idea because sometimes my brain doesnt always think correctly during this type of event and i end up regretting my decisions.. :)

Answer 1

Just keep everything light and easy, in the begining, no serious stuff. After all, you haven't seen her in awhile, you say and get re-acquainted, kinda. It's a day to have fun and enjoy yourselves. Just be natural, be your self, Give her all your attention and smile if and when you feel awkward or uncomfortable. After the day is over, after spending time together, you'll be in a better position to know what you want to say to her in regards to your feelings for her. I do agree that it is something you should be thinking about in advance. Sounds like things are going your way.

Answer 2

U sound like a OK kindda guy .
just be yourself , most probably she likes you too , so the first step is already taken.
goodluck , bro enjoy your day ;-)

Answer 3

I think you will know when the moment is right what your next step is gonna be. Dont try to overthink what you are gonna do.... just do it.

Answer 4

ask her if she wants to go out for ice scream sometime.

Answer 5

skinny dipp?