I asked out a coworker of mine (because she was sending me a lot of signals) and got turned down. It ends up she turned me down because she was interested in someone else, even though they aren't dating yet. I don't think she realizes how much this hurt me. Is there anyway to let her know how much she humiliated me, or even make her feel it?
2007-07-25 20:57:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just dont do anything. if she let you down then she missed out and didnt no it. its her loss and your gain becuase now you no she doesnt have feelings for you, and you can move on.
2007-07-25 21:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by KristinaMiller 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself. You asked, she said no thank you, end of story. You don't say that she ran you down, or belittled you. Maybe you misread the signals and got your wires crossed, and even if you didn't, everyone has the right to change their mind, and it sounds like she did. And a good thing too.
If you are thinking of doing something to her for nothing more than saying no to a date, then what would you do if you dated and she decided later that it wasn't working? She is definitely better off without you. I suggest you seek professional help.
2007-07-26 04:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly man, there's not much you can do...and what im about to tell you is going to sound way too cliche. you have to act like you didnt give a **** and that it was HER lost. work on the good things in your life, and talk to her like she let you get away and it was a huge mistake...dont dwell on it or she'll just find u more repulsive and you will not get any happier. g'luck mate, there be more ladies in this world.
2007-07-26 04:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by ryan 3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest..if she was sending you signals,then turned you down..then she obviously aint worth bothering with.some people find it amusing to play games not thinking of how it can affect someone else.i wouldnt recommend any kind of revenge.all that will do is prove to her that it really bothered you.just hold your head up high and find someone better.
2007-07-26 04:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by emma t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just tell her - but you run the risk of looking like an even bigger loser. Cut your losses and move on - its called karma baby and it comes around.
2007-07-26 04:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by andiepandie81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
figure out who she likes and secretly tell them she has an std. dont let them know who you are. tell them you gave it to her so you would know. or she gave it to you. that would be hilarious.
2007-07-26 04:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by partly smart 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋