i dont no what to do any more i need help with my life plezzzzzzzzzz..........................................

Question

im 13 & i have been cutting for like 2 years & im trying 2 stop but i cant
i have cut 2 times 2 day the first time i cut 10 time & this time its to many 2 count

I dont no what to do any more I am starting 2 HATE my life

i have somewhat found the reason why i cut but its a bad reason
it my family when ever im around them or think about them they make me mad or w/e

i dont no what 2 do any more i just want 2 die

& i have blood on my wrist right now

I CANT TELL ANY1
my parentsor family & friends dont no & they CANT
& I CANT CALL ANY STUPID # OR TALK 2 A DOCTOR OR W/E I NEED SOMETHING THAT WILL SELF HELP

PLEZZZZZZ I NEEEEDDDDD HELP

i dont no how much longer i can live like this

Answer 1

just take this young age to learn and get ready for the rest of your life. you dont want to go to beach one day and have scars all over you. Talking or writing down ur feelings help, dont just bleed it out you will regret it later

Answer 2

Oh hunni I feel 4 you I really do. I'm kinda going through the same at the moment. I don't cut but I have had an eating disorder 4 the past 2 and a half years and I'm trying to recover but things are getting me down but thats besides the point. I've also just relized why I got my eating disorder and its to do with my family but I don't blame them they were only acting like normal parents but I obviously took it the wrong way. Instead of cutting you should try and do other things. Cutting is not the answer and its not going to help you. Can you not even talk to a very good friend? Talking to someone who you know well will be able to help you. I've found this very useful because I have felt just like you have several times. Well I realli am thinking of you, hope things start to get better. Take care x

Answer 3

Allison,
i sent you an email dear. It has a web site there for you so you can get support and not feel so alone...
You are not alone and struggling with yourself so much right now. I feel for you because this is no fun at all , and is frightening.
Sooner or later someone is going to find out... It is a secret right now, however the more marks you make the more noticeable it will be.
You want help, yet are so scared that others are going to find out. Please try distracting yourself when the urge to cut is there. Go out for a walk, watch a movie, take a bath, turn on music loudly, write what you feel down in a diary.... Cutting is an addiction because of the quick fix it can give us. you feel better, that is why it is so hard to quit.

Answer 4

Plz i'm begging you to talk to someone. Try your friends but the people that will help the most is your parents! It may be hard because it seems you really dislike them but once you get over that and find a way of living life will be worth while. Think about if you did die how bad your parents would feel and your friends. You'd be leaving them in such a bad state that could cause many many terrible problems in there life. IN ADDITION to talking to your parents try finding something worth while to do that will give you a break from your family like joining a club or playing a sport. And do lots of things with your friends like movies or swimming but killing yourself is not the answer! Don't do it! Please!

Answer 5

wow ummm i think that you should stop for a second and look at your life and think what is wrong and what can you change or talk to your family and tell them that you are frustrated with them and they might just listen. well im also 13 and i know that your family can make you mad but there are other ways to deal with this other than causes yourself pain. if you want to stop i think you should throw away everything that is sharp that is in your room and put something on those cuts. and if you believe in some religion you can ask your spiritual figure for guidance.
Well i hope helped and please be careful and be smart about this. Take care

Answer 6

You are undoubtedly in HELL and you must make the proper move to get out. Step one is let your parents know exactly how you feel and what you are doing. I am sure they are good people and care about you. They must help you find the right path. A psychiatrist? A psychologist? Someone in school? Medication may be in order and only a doctor can help in that regard. But first a diagnosis must be made to determine why you are hurting yourself. What is the driving motivation? Talk to your folks now. Don't be afraid. Do it!

Answer 7

Cutting is the outward symptom of extreme emotional turmoil and depression- unchecked, it can be extremely addictive. I started cutting at 15. At the time, I'd never heard of a cutter, but physical pain seemed to be a natural relief to my mental stress. Initially I used it as an anesthetic, yet once I was thoroughly, and insanely numb, it became a fascinating source of entertainment; an obsessive daily ritual. Seven years later, I am ashamed of my scars, frustrated at my detached view of life, and wishing I'd realized the damage I blindly rendered both physically and emotionally. I still fight the urge to cut because I have hardwired myself to hide things rather than dealing. Please don't do this. Find someone to talk to. When I was at my lowest, and most suicidal point, I confessed my nasty habit to a friend. He was shocked, but the encouragement was priceless. It's a daily battle, but you can get through this.

Answer 8

Please take the above advice and speak to your parents. They can help you get access to counsellors etc. You may need prescribed medication to help you, and only a doctor can do this.

If you find you definitely can't speak to your parents, please at least call a confidential help-line. Speaking to trained professionals really should help you. I'm not sure where you are, but in Australia there is a helpline called "Lifeline". Perhaps you have something similar where you are.

Being 13, please try and remember that you have your whole life ahead of you to enjoy and make something of it. Life is hard as a young teenager, but once you get through it there is so much to life that you can look forward to and experience.

Answer 9

i no im problely not going to be a big help but u need to see somebody...u need to tell ur parents trust me im 14 i have anxitey deppression and ocd..i no what it feels like to be in so much pain and just want to die...i no its hard to tell ur parents and ur friends b/c u dont want to be embarresed...mental illness like this...r just the same if u had something physical.. wrong with..u if u had a broken arm u would not be embaressed to get help u would go to the docter and get a cast and fix it thats all it is if u would tell someone anyone..mabye they could get u to see a docter or help u out in some kinda way..but u cant keep going on like...this because trust me it never goes away....please take my advise...tell someone and if u ever need someone to talk to email me at [e-mail] good luck

Answer 10

You can't get through this alone. The first step is that you need to tell your parents. Once you gather up enough courage, you'll be so glad you told them. The problem won't just go away, you need help, from people who know and are experienced. I hope someone can help you, good luck.