right now im not feeling so well.
I am feeling very sad and lonely- but restless
whenever i am out with friends or doing something that occupys my time, i feel fine. But, especially at night, when i go home i become very sad just like how i am right now.
do you think something could be wrong?
2007-07-25 18:24:37 · 9 answers · asked by buttercup 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
no i dont have a curfew, i am allowed to be out as late as i want but everyone else likes to sleep.,.
2007-07-25 18:30:12 · update #1
None of us can diagnose you per se, we're not doctors, and even those of us who may be would need to see you professionally. You could certainly be a little depressed though, keep track of your moods and if it continues for a few weeks or gets worse, talk to your doctor. Some people are just extroverted though, and they feel at their best when they're with other people. Take care!
2007-07-25 18:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by HaphazardJoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first, this is Yahoo Answers, so you are not likely to get any professional advice here, just guesses from people like me who may care about what is going on with you, but we are just guessing.
Having said that, depression is pretty common among young people. You are old enough to see what is going on in the world, and a lot of it sucks. Depression is curable, and it doesn't have to be with drugs (although they DO work).
You have noticed that when you are doing something, you feel OK. That's the key. Obviously you have to sleep sometime, but if you know that all the #$%@ that you think about when you are trying to get to sleep is your brains way of dumping all of the junk you come across during the day. Some of the stuff you may not even realize that you hear or see -like a radio or TV on in the next room. Your mind picks it up, even if you are thinking about something else. Your subconscious mind does not differentiate between the reality of your personal life, and the plots of TV shows, or bad news on the news. So as you go to sleep you conscious mind sorts out all these different scenarios to make sense of it all, and a lot of the stuff is depressing and scary. Just know that you are at a sensitive age, and that it is a good thing that you are aware of all this stuff. You will become more and more able to control this. So let it happen, UNLESS the depression gets to the point where you can't go to school or work or go out with friends, and just stay in bed, or isolate yourself. If that happens, see a doctor, and get the medication. You will get through this, and be stronger for it. Good Luck to you!
2007-07-26 01:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by roscoedeadbeat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can feel sad and lonely when you have a nice life and friends. There is a way the majority has of grouping and excluding a few in every group. Later in life these few become very depressed and never learn what their friends were doing behind their backs so to speak. Be a spy and then find a friend who matches you life style.
2007-07-26 01:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be looking for things that are exciting (for a change of pace), and it's normal to be excited and then return home and relax which is a totally different feeling. I don't know it as "sad" though. Usually it's a time to reflect on what fun you had and hope to have again in the future. And, maybe you need to study more or take care of your restlessness (stop drinking the caffeine), learn new things, have a hobby, learn to sew, write in your journal, learn to cook, do some art work, remodel your room, play some games with family or friends, take some dancing lessons, ride your bike or get some exercise....there are lots of things to do.
2007-07-26 01:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens to me when I am in my party mode. I start to miss the excitement, but after a few days it goes away.
I just try to occupy my time with something constructive and eventually I forget about going out so much.
2007-07-26 01:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by surffsav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the best thing to do is go to sleep. Sleep regulates emotions, and when you're really tired your emotions can get out of whack. Notice how fights are usually worse when they happen late at night or when you're tired? Same issue. Try going to bed instead of ruminating (thinking it over too much). See how you feel.
2007-07-26 03:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by Corozal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that you do not like to be alone. You are a people person and feel the happiest and more alive when you do activities and are around others.
Some people are like that, others are loners and prefer to be more secluded. I do not think something is wrong. I think it is your personality .
I also think your going to have to come to terms with being alone though and not feel sad.
2007-07-26 03:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being sad is what is wrong but what are you sad about. Is this about curfew?
2007-07-26 01:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell you this, but you hate yourself. You use the company of others to validate your existence. Wanna drinky poo?
2007-07-26 01:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋