I'm wondering whats up, I mean I'm pretty attractive (I guess...I've had guys tell me this before) but for some reason I don't get asked out alot. I'm 18 and I've only had 3 serious boyfriends (over 4 months), then again I am pretty busy with all of my millions of activities (sports, etc.). Are guys intimidated by tall girls? Like 6' tall or is my size the problem (size 14? I'm just confused..perhaps its lack of confidence...my main question is: Is it unattractive to be big like I am? Thanks.
2007-07-25 17:49:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think people are getting confused. when I said I've had 3 bfs (4 months). I meant I've had 3 serious relationships that each lasted 4 months or longer. Not 3 men in 4 months..lol..
2007-07-25 18:02:08 · update #1
Sweetie I have a friend who is 6'1 and she is very attractive she looks alot like Nicky Hilton, and she has no problem getting with men but honestly size 14? you should try losing a little bit of weight you should not be larger than a size 12 that would be equivilent to about 15 lbs in your size. And be confident. and how can you be in 3 serious relationships over a 4 month period this is not serious this is called dating. you are too young to think of these things concentrate on your life and other things will fall right into place. Be strong and confident. Before you walk into a room think of how beautiful you are and alway think of yourself as a valuble young woman you will see how people react to you.
2007-07-25 17:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 serious boyfriends over 3 months? Sounds like guys are attracted to you. Yes you are 6' yes you are size 14. Also you said you had millions of activities my goodness how do you have time for sleep...LOL..Are you nice, approachable? I think you worry to much. My goodness your just 18.
2007-07-26 00:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 serious relationships is good by the time you are 18, especially is you are busy with extracurricular activities. I only had 2 by the time I was 18. I'm 23 now and am on my 3rd, who I will probably end up marrying in the next couple of years. Don't worry about it so much.
2007-07-26 00:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by allknowing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you the right answer because everyone has different opinions. Also dont worry about the whole bf thing. When the time is right then he will come to you. Any bf under 17 is not that serious. Let those things pass and learn to be comfertable in your own skin. If you think that you should change the way you look then do it but if you dont then just be happy with who you are!
2007-07-26 00:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think a size 14 is too big for a six foot tall girl. There are lots of pretty, smart, sweet girls out there without a steady guy. Enjoy your activities and one day, you'll meet Mr. Right. No sense rushing it...you're too young for that nonsense.
2007-07-26 00:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem. There are plenty of guys that like big girls. If you have had 3 bf or 4 months then you are doing great. Just be patient.
2007-07-26 00:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THREE BOYFRIENDS SOUNDS LIKE PLENTY IN FOUR MONTHS TO NE. I THINK THAT IT IS WONDERFUL TO BE TALL AS MOST MODELS ARE VERY TALL AND I DON'T THINK THAT YOU SHOULD WORRY ABOUT BEING TALL. YOU ARE NOT BIG. MOST MEN LOVE TALL WOMEN AND I THINK THAT WITH YOUR OTHER ACTIVITIES, THREE MEN IS AN EXORBITANT AMOUNT IN FOUR MONTHS., I DON'T KNOW HOW YOU FOUND THE TIME FOR THAT MANY. JUST GIVE YOURSELF TIME AND CREDIT FOR WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND ALL THAT YOU HAVE TO DO. IF YOU FEEL YOU NEED TO CHANGE ANYTHING, GO TO THE HAIRSTYLIST FOR A NEW DO, OR DO YOUR NAILS AND MAKE-UP IN A NEW STYLE, EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE. I AM SURE THAT YOU ARE JUST NOT GIVING YOURSELF CREDIT. JUST RELAX GIRL. BE YOURSELF, AND IF THEY DON'T ACCEPT YOU THAT WAY, FIND ANOTHER. A MAN WHO CANNOT ACCEPT YOU FOR YOU IS NOT THE MAN FOR YOU ANYWAY.
2007-07-26 00:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by mountain_momma2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter is a big girl, too. She felt the same way when she was still in school. The problem for her was the boys were looking for cuties, someone tiny they could wrap their arm around. None of them gave a crap about personality, intelligence, or social activity. Your man is out there, and one day you will meet him. Don't be in a hurry. Young lasts such a short time. Good luck to you.
2007-07-26 00:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes guys can some times be intimidated by tall girls. You need to stand tall & proud & be confidant about yourself & others will see that too!
Hey at your height you could be a model. I wish I was that tall!
2007-07-26 00:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by Lollipop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes guys are intimidated by females that are attractive. being tall has nothing to do with it. im sure theres a guy out there that wants to ask you but is tripping out because 1) how his homies will view him and 2) he thinks if he ask you out that you will turn them down. something to let you know. a lot of guys fear rejection...a few have grown out of it but a lot still are and if any guy says differently then they are lying. ooooo and im sure a lot of guys aren't looking at your feet haaaa so dont worry about that nonsense
2007-07-26 00:54:52 · answer #10 · answered by Carl K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋