I'm 22 years older than he is, old enough to be his mother and I'm overweight & plain to average looking. He's a good-looking young man. Does he just want a mother figure? His mother committed suicide when he was very young.
2007-07-25 17:16:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This could be one reason. Another could be that he is looking at you as a meal ticket. Or another could be that he is being genuine and he finds you interesting and wants to get to know you better. This is a large age difference and there would be many differences between you two, least of all maturity level. Be careful when searching your heart to find out if you want to get involved with someone this young.
2007-07-25 17:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 41 and get hit on by younger guys all the time. Most young guys have that older woman fantasy. Maybe he has that about you. I wouldn't count on a serious relationship but have some fun!!! Young guys like that have stamina that will blow your mind.
2007-07-25 17:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could play dr. phil here,
but i get to the point,
do you think you'll ever have a chance to have this again...
even if you think it will only last a day or two..??
As much it is only a fantasy (fling) would you pass up this opportunity for just to be happy for a short/long time?
is your life so much better with out this?
i want jessica biel and i'm in my mid 30's, but that's not going to happen...
but then again, when do people like you and me get what we want?
you have something that not many people your age has,
take it, it's more than you had yesterday..
2007-07-25 17:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by mxnakano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ve dated older women and its not because i need a mother figure. i did it because younger women bring extra drama. and with his mother passing when he was young he just probably doesnt want the added headache. also average women are easier to carry on a relationship with. (hey thats just my opinion)
2007-07-25 17:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most mature young men prefer older women who are more experienced in everything than to be with a younger woman who lack experiences.
2007-07-25 17:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by firewall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....true love really does not have any limits. But you have to be sure its love and lack of security that this guy is looking for.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But that is a lot of age diff. best of luck
2007-07-25 17:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by hhsbs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, maybe he really likes you! I have a friend is prefers to date chubby older women! Nothing wrong with that! Have fun and see where it goes!
2007-07-25 17:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by curvygal31 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he finds you attractive. Or he could just want to use you for your money. I don't know. I mean lots of men date older women. I guess he finds you attractive.
2007-07-25 17:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by Handsome Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only he knows....if he wants a mother figure don't take advantage of that.
2007-07-25 17:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think you should flirt and then see if hes interested
2007-07-25 17:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by DJ_Fluke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋