why dont guys like being chased??

Question

jeez.. its ridiculous. they're into u and chase u and as soon as u chase them back its like whatverrr!

Answer 1

I disagree. I think it would be a welcome relief to have a woman chase me instead of one of her friends tell me, "Are you stupid, can't you tell she wants you to ask her out." If you have feelings, show them. In my experience, this has happened way more than the other way around as you suggest. The man is almost always the one expected to make the move and initiate aomething. We have to ask a person out, we have to be the one to propose marriage.

Answer 2

Alessandra (from Italy Mi piache il tuo nome) you wrong Guys love to be chased it increases their self esteem and value. What is happening is guys chase you first at least most guys (it does happen that sometimes women do all the chassing and thats sexy), and then you start chasing them. You think they are like whatever but you wrong because now that they got you chasing them they cant chase you anymore so its all part of the game to ignore some of the chases same as women do ignore at the beggining so they dont look too easy.

Answer 3

They like being aggressed but not chased. There is a fine line of a difference. Guys feel they should be the hunters. As guys get older and turn to men, they like to be sought after. I won't say chase cause generally they feel if you chase you are desperate. But they like to be pursued. Let them know you like them, then step back and let them feel like they are in control. Its all such a stupid ego trip of a game its ridiculous. Thats just the way it is and always has been.

Answer 4

Guys like to work for it a little. They see what they want and go get it. If it is real easy or the girl is chasing them it seems too easy and they think they can do better. I'm not saying you aren't a catch but you can make yourself more attractive by not being "needy".
Just be available and be nice to him. If he treats you badly don't even bother.

Answer 5

depends on how you chase back. youre a girl and dont have to chase back. once you get older you will see that you really dont have to do anything once a guy is into besides show interest and the guy is pretty much there

Answer 6

Maybe it has something to do with biology. Men were always the pursuers and women always the choosers. When the "instinct" is switched maybe men are deprived of their masculinity and feel less active. More than likely: it's the chase that's important...it's a challenge, a chance to win.

Answer 7

see that's where their smart... they don't want any woman chasing... If your chasing then that means your most likely not all that into them, they could be any guy that your doing that to... they want a woman that wont give herself over to them within the first 90 seconds... they want someone that feels special to them and having what they can isn't really special because they could be any man to that woman...

Answer 8

Lol I thought u were talking about tag, cause i hate that haha. But your question is kinda vague. The way i see it is that if you chase them then they don't really feel u anymore cause u seem desperate. Some guys feel like it's their duty to "chase" the girls. But like u said if he already "chased" u then why would he like u if he has stopped?

Answer 9

Cuz we enjoy the hunt...and then the kill.....(figurativly speaking)....lol....kind of makes it boring to have the feast come to you instead of going after it......but frankly im not really sure why...i personally love it when a girl chases me.....maybe some guys get frightened or intimidated

Answer 10

guys dont like being chased because of our egos. the male ego is dominant so when we feel like we are being chased we back away because it makes our ego subside and we back away beign chased would make us feel like we have to be submissive and thats something the male ego just cant handle