*shrugs* That's a personal decision...can he trust her? Just because she isn't cheating now, how sure is he that she won't cheat in the future? Does she appear remorseful for cheating in the past? What was her excuse? Has that issue (her "reason" for cheating) been resolved?
There's much to consider before accepting a cheater back...and if trust isn't there or cannot be re-established then the situation will never work.
2007-07-25 14:28:06
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answered by . 7
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Well, being a guy, I always try to keep the rules simple, therefore I only have three rules, which I call the unbreakables:
1. Never go to bed angry, otherwise you will never resolve the issue and you drive an unmovable wedge between both individuals.
2. Never lie or withhold vital information from me. How can you make the best decision for your movements in a relationship, without all the necessary knowledge?
3. Be faithful. You want that kind of dedication from each other for more than just emotional anchoring. It is also the trip up in giving you and your loved one STDs, or the female getting pregnant, without knowing who the father is, as well as reputable issues that come up.
I figure if you can keep to these simple rules, you will have a healthy relationship. In other words Paul, kiss her tenderly, lovingly, passionately, and say goodbye.
P.S. Never badmouth her, it lessens you as a man, even if she does it to you. If it happens from her end, you will know you really made the right decision!
2007-07-25 14:39:55
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answered by raiderking69 5
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Thats hard. Its difficult, but if you've forgiven her than i guess i dont see the problem. I wouldnt though, cuz she broke marriage vows by doing that. Whether she does it or not now is wouldnt be the issue, its the fact that she's done it. I'm all for forgiving and moving on, but if she's cheated on you than you must not mean that much to her, or she wasnt ready to settle down.
2007-07-25 14:29:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Myself - i wouldnt. From my personal experience, a cheater is a cheater is a cheater. If they do it once, they will do it again and do it again and do it again. They will cheat on one guy to get with another guy, then they will cheat on that person to get with another, and then cheat on that person when they get bored with them.
Maybe im picky, but if i find out that a girl has cheated on past boyfriends i cant take her seriously.
2007-07-25 14:28:25
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answered by Anonymous
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The cheater will be a cheater for life. Is a fact, and never will a Change.If she was a cheater on you, is time to move on and look for someone else.Sorry, fella.
2007-07-25 14:36:23
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answered by Mario Vinny D 7
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Honestly, I don't think you should. When somebody cheats, it shows a complete lack of loyalty and frankly, that they don't care. When you cheat on somebody, you KNOW it'll hurt them, and it's completely selfish.
2007-07-25 14:32:13
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answered by astroxzombiexlove 2
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you have to ask yourself.... do you honestly believe she will never do it again? Can you trust her?? Because if you take her back you shouldn't throw it back in her face. Is the relationship worth saving? Good luck.
2007-07-25 14:28:18
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answered by Anonymous
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she should have never cheated on you that is horrible and she should not have done it if she wants to be back in ur arms mabey she should have thought about that while she was cheating
2007-07-25 14:29:34
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answered by Megan D 1
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Only if you can forgive her and feel you can trust her. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-07-25 14:28:59
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answered by Ms. Angel.. 7
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no, can't say she'd do it again but who'd want to have the memory of having his wife with someone else. Not me!!!
2007-07-25 14:29:27
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answered by w00189wr 4
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