What is the downside of big boobs?

Question

i'm a 32, 34 A and im not the smallest of my friends but I do have really close friends that are like b and c. Guys cant help but compare so I always come up short, no pun intended. So I just keep wishing but I know small boobs are in my family. I just wanna know are there any bad things about large breasts. Please dont try to make me feel better im fine with my situation. Answers form boys and girls please!!!

Answer 1

they sag, and they can cause back problems.
My aunt had to get a reduction because of the weight of them.

EDIT: I'm an A cup and I relly like it, I have one of those lanky, boyish, gibson girl frames. I hated them for a long time, but I've accepted them and now I like them.

Answer 2

Back problems are the biggest issue. There is also the fact that I cannot sleep on my stomach or my back comfortably unless I am wearing a bra to keep them from either folding under me and going numb, or falling into my face and smothering me. Wearing a bra 24/7 is uncomfortable in it's own right, but not painful like NOT wearing a bra is. I had great difficulty breast feeding my daughters, and had to use a pump and feed them from a bottle and could only do so for about a month which left them with less than the desired nutrition at the most critical stage of their lives.

There is the issue with every man who looks at me thinking that they can approach me with every crude comment that comes out of their mouths and then being called names because I'm not flattered by their attention. I've even had some men with so little self control they just touch them, and then laugh saying they were just checking to see if they were real. Which also leads us to the fact that I cannot walk into a room without the murmur of "oh those cannot be real" wafting through the crowd. Sometimes I just want to whip off my bra so they can see that there are no scars and the only perkiness is due to Platex 18 hour support! Gravity is NOT kind, so my breasts were sagging before I even hit highschool.

And finally, clothes never fit right, and one bra costs upwards of $50 just to fit, and close to $100 if I want it to last.

Answer 3

Well, I can answer this every well, I'm 34DD naturals.

- As many said, there's more back pain problems.
- Is hard to find those pretty sexy Bras in my size.
- When you get pregnant will get even bigger.
- Many people asks if are natural (hate that!)
- When single and dating, most boys stare at them, others take the first opportunity to grab them (I had to punch and slap many faces)
- You never know if a guy really ikes you or is all about your boobs.
- Many Girls hate you because of it, and girls and guys sees you the easier girl, even if you don't act like that.
- The nice blouses are usually not made for big boobs, so or you can't wear them or they will look too much and exaggerated.
- Is difficult to find clothes that fit.
- Some clothes will make you look fat, even if you aren't just because your boobs are big, so is difficult choosing clothes.
- Time will make harder to avoid gravity and is more easily to notice in big boobs.


Hope this answer your questions, and believe I didn't try to make you feel better, is for real.

Answer 4

Well since I'm in the same group as you, I can only tell you stuff that I've heard. I hear that it gives you a lot of back problems and that is why some girls actually HAVE TO get a breast reduction whether they want to or not. Sometimes they draw unwanted attention and guys pay more attention the them than to you as a whole. And according to some cousins and friends of mine, it's harder to shop for them in the summertimes........they say it's not too easy to find nice halters and other stuff like that without them nearly popping out or showing too much cleavage. I dont know about you but I'm happy being small lol

Answer 5

Gravity. Having to wear two bras while running. Back pain. People always asking you whats your bra size. Wondering if the guy is dating you for you or your boobs only. Rumors that you must have gotten a boob job. People thinking you are some sex crazed maniac because of your boobs and that you enjoy certain positions more. People saying that boobs are just "fat" and that you are fat because your boobs are larger than normal. Bullying in general. Never being able to wear tight shirts that button up, you always have to get a size bigger, therefore making you look baggy. Clothes in general being tight on top and loose on the bottom. When a woman has smaller boobs, she looks skinner. Not being able to see your toes ;) That last one is just a joke

Answer 6

Listen, big fun bags are great.

But everyone below is correct. As you get a little older you'll see the effects of gravity take hold. Before you know it you'll be throwing those things over your shoulder when you go out.

Guys will like you, and your boobs, regardless. Don't be to fixated with them. You know why? Because the only thing worse than a girl with small boobs is one that's obsessed with her body's imperfections.

Answer 7

Where do I start. When I was a teenager I was large busted and small around the waist, Clothes did not fit right. I also got alot of stretch marks from growing so fast. I lost a bra size after nursing my first child for a year, but I am still a 36C. I now have saggy breasts and have ever since nursing my child. I have also had many back issues due to my size. Not to mention it is really hard to find cute bathing suit tops with enough support, now that I am no longer perky.

Answer 8

natural big boobs, HELL NO ther's no downside. As everyone knows we guys love them. They are s sexy and hot and so sensual to the touch.

Ther can be a downside. My friend has really big ones, D cup. They've been giving her back problems because of the weight.

Answer 9

I'm a C/D cup myself. I'm 17 and i'm 5'1 so they make me look chubby even though i'm not. It's hard to find cute tops that DON'T make you look like a porn star and bras always look like some kind of weird contraption rather than cute and sexy.

I don't have back problems yet but sometimes the straps cut into my shoulders since I have it on the smallest adjustment for better support.

When I walk, people (mostly guys and older men) stare and I feel like i'm on display at some creepy sex show. Bathing suits are horrible because it's like you're on baywatch or something which gets annoying.

I used to hate my boobs with a mad passion and now i'm starting to like them, though I wouldn't mind being a B.

Answer 10

I'm a 42DD and believe it's not necessarily all that fun. Yea guys like big boobs but I have to pay extra money for my bras and I can only buy them from certain stores (i.e. not vickkie sees or fredricks) I also have to buy shirts that are most time too big because I have to fit my boobs in there. And I have constant back pain as well. So guys may like looking, but they don't have to deal with them. Don't be bummed because your boobs probably fit your body if you had my boobs you'd look like Pamela Anderson, who in my opinion looks disgusting.

Answer 11

Everyone always kind of wants what they don't have in that area, and I think every woman would consider changing their own breasts at some point.

I am quite slim and small, with large breasts for my size, a d cup. I would love more than anything to have a smaller chest, and friends who are smaller would gladly "like me to share with them." (their words)

Having larger breasts can give back problems; which I definitely experience. Given the summer season I'm also frustrated with shopping. Bathing suits shopping is no fun and I can not find one to fit. It's hard to find things to fit over a large chest when you are not large everywhere else.