Our dog died of cancer last week at the age of 14. We miss him so much. My husband wants to get another one but I feel it is too soon.
What do you think
2007-07-25 12:45:01 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
There is never a right or wrong time. It depends on each individual. If you both feel that you are ok emotionally with getting another, then it may be excellent therapy for you. Also, a puppy may help you remember why you loved your deceased dog so much as puppies bring extreme joy!
2007-07-25 12:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry for your loss! I think that you are the only one that can answer the question on if you should get another dog. You would not be replacing the one you lost. The dog you lost will be one of a kind , you will never forget him, and he will always remain in your heart! No dogs personality is the same! I'm sure that your dog would want you and his old companion to be happy! He knew you loved him! If you feel in your hearts, like you are ready to take care of another friend, then by all means do what your heart tells you to do! Please adopt from a Rescue or a Shelter! You will be saving a life and you will have a great friend! It's a great feeling!
2016-05-18 04:43:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes do get another dog or you will just continue missing him. We couldn't bear not having a dog when our first one died aged 14 and told the vet we would take any dog needing a new home. We were lucky enough to get our golden retriever aged 9 months from a lovely family whose daughter had asthma due to the dog. They were heartbroken to part with him but we had him for 16 years and kept in touch with the original owners all that time. We still exchange Christmas cards 25 years later!
2007-07-25 23:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to lose a dearly love pet. When you are both ready for a new pet. I know it is hard, feeling that you are replacing an old pet, but you are not replacing. You will always have the memories of your lost loved one. When you do finally get another pet. It will help ease the hurt in time and make the healing process a little less hard. I used to have 5 dogs and 2 cats. I lost a pet due to another dog attacking her. We had to have her humanely euthanized. Now I have 4 dogs, which 2 are still puppies and also still have the 2 cats. It has really helped having my other pets here to help comfort me for the loss, and I know they feel it too. I hope I have been able to help you.
2007-07-25 14:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by Kim C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we buried our dog last year. he lived for 16 years and dad said never again because we were so upset over it, that we couldnt go through it again.
so the day after he buried the dog he met a man, and the man said 'do you know of anyone looking for a dog' and dad laughed and said i only buried one yesterday.... but still he came home and told us, and we felt that this dog was a replacement of the one we buried! such a coincidence to ask the question the day after! so we took the dog, and then got another!
and we love them!
so in a way they a new puppy can heal the loss of the old dog! we still miss our dog a year later, you will always miss the dog, so there will never be a right time! but maybe a new dog will help it!
2007-07-25 12:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by josephine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is where you search your heart and decide. Only you will know when its right.
With one dog that died, we waited about a year and a half.
The next time, we had another dog already and he was lonely. Though we didn't feel ready, we knew he needed another dog, so we got one. She made us so happy and it did relieve our grief somewhat. So in the end I was glad we did.
It is a very personal decision. If your husband really feels the need for a dog, it might be the right choice - or he may need to respect your need for time. You two need to talk it out honestly. I just thought I'd share my experiences. I'm so sorry for your loss.
2007-07-25 12:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone is different and it is up to both of you when to get another dog..we lost our pet dog when she was 14 too and though we had said we were not getting another dog ever again,we are now though it is four years later..a dog is a very big part of your life,especially after 14 years and you will need time to grieve before you feel you can give 100% to a new dog.maybe try to reach a compromise with your husband that ye wont get one yet but will talk about it again soon..some people though do find that putting their energy into looking after another dog is the way to get through things..everyone is different..
2007-07-25 13:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So sorry to hear the bad news.
It is entirely up to you.
If you would get another dog, would you feel guilty, as if you would replace your old dog or cheat on him?
Just see it from this point of view: Your dog was happy with you and would be happy for you to make another dog happy.
All the best
2007-07-25 13:03:40 · answer #8 · answered by Wednesday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a great idea. You will NEVER replace your other beloved dog and your new dog will never take his place. You are obviously a caring, responsible dog owner, so yes i think you should have another one. Why don't you get a rescue dog? It may make you feel better that you have save a dog from a life of hell.
2007-07-25 23:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Chuckles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's too soon to start looking. Because you know you are going to get another dog - most people do if they've lost a beloved pet. Just take your time looking. Do research on breeds, visit the humane society, take your time. By the time you find the right dog, it will be the right time.
2007-07-25 12:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by macguff 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋