Why do Men Cheat on their girls??... Here is the situation... I knw a guy that is totally unfaithful to his girl…. He is a very well known guy, good looking, successful, and very charming. However, when he is away from home (travels a lot) he tends to call another girl (booty call) and COMPLETELY acts all very lovingly to his girl when he is home. She is completely in love with him. He seems to be the perfect boyfriend around her… but when he is away, he has a total different personality. Why is he like that??
2007-07-25 11:42:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a man. I'm also not a fool.
Men cheat because they can (opportunity) and are biologically predestined to get their genes into the next generation. No amount of socialization will change this, neither will "relationship" status. Birth control cuts down on unwanted pregnancies but the behaviour is still and always will be present and this goes for every man YES your man too.
I suspect since you know this, you either told your "friend" and she didn't believe you; since he is so "charming and COMPLETELY acts all very lovingly to his girl when he is home OR you haven't said anything because no woman wants to believe that HER man could cheat on her like there is no tomorrow. Side note -duplicity thy name is man.
So is he traveling to the same place to meet his booty call or are there several booty calls in different places that he has traveled. Can you suggest your "friend" go with him on these trips?
Please advise your friend to get tested but don't imply the BF is cheating she won't believe you ask her to go with you or state that it is the smart thing to do since she is so serious about that man. Remind her that certain diseases can lay dormant if she acts suspicious.
PS Women don't cheat on men as much as men cheat on women. We have much more to loose:
Unwanted children
Disease yes our plumbing makes us more suceptable
Damage to our reputations (patriarchal standards)
Good luck and God Bless
2007-07-25 11:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women can be cheaters just as much as any man. The only difference is that women are a little more discreet when they cheat versus men.
The guy you are talking about is the classic player. Pure and simple. He likes to have his cake and eat it too. He wants the stability of being in a relationship, but want the thrills and fun of the pursuit of other women.
2007-07-25 18:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is in love with the idea of getting a way with it. He gets a charge out it. Once someone starts that crap, it's like a drug or a habit. They won't quit; even after getting married.
Some people, men and women!!!!!!! are just natural born cheats. You can't trust them and you are in for alot of heartaches if you ever get into a relationship with one. They just can't control it and have no remorse for doing it. Only remorse for getting caught. And sometimes they don't understand the big deal about it.
2007-07-25 18:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by Keeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the most part it cause he can \ most men like too have a stable relationship too come home too but at the same time like too have the variety in there women if it is possible \ or it could be that his home girl is just a hang on and he need,s more then she is willing too give so he find,s it someplace Else \i know in my case with my ex the last year i was with her i had too find someone eles cuse she was realy makeing my life misrable and i deserved a lot better and i found her she understood and stood by me throught the divorce and still is hear so
2007-07-25 18:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dat's only some guys, just like some girls cheat.
2007-07-25 18:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Crown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do girls cheat on men?
2007-07-25 18:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my boyfriend says he is insecure. prob has a small penis
2007-07-25 18:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by amelia s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just for sex.
2007-07-25 18:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋