I recently found out my GF spent time with her ex bf. A friend told me in confidence and I don't want to betray them.
But the thing is, she didnt tell me she spent time with her ex. And she has done this before.
When we started out, she told me she was still friends with him. I was fine with it. But because of times like this...my trust is going down fast. And I hate that I cant trust her. I also know the ex bf is still in love with her and wants her back.
I love her and I dont think anything happened..but I can't get this out of my head. How can I confront her or talk to her about it with out betraying my friend?
Also..is it weird for to see him and not tell me? Am I being to sensative about it?
2007-07-25 11:12:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Save yourself the trouble and just dump her, but don't mention anything about this situation.
There's way too much drama and from the sound of things you're already on the downward spiral because the trust is gone. They say you can get trust back, but the lying is just so wrong.
2007-07-25 11:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by Peter N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, It's not weird you're worried. I would be VERY worried. If he is in love with her, why would she want to see him unless she has feelings for him? I would confront her immediatly.. "Why are you seeing him?" and say "is there something going on with you two?"
Through her off guard with strong questions and all you will need to do is judge how she acts to get the truth. You'll be able to tell if she's lying.
If she says..."How did you know?" Don't tell her if it means betraying another friend..Just say. "why should I tell you? You haven't been honest with me?"
Good Luck
2007-07-25 18:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pal, this is like me and my now ex. She broke up with him because she liked me and then after we went out for a little bit, while she was seeing him. (I thought it was only a one day thing) but her friend told me it was just about everyday they would hang on....so...I wasn't happy and I spilt up with her and low and behold they got back together a couple of weeks later. I no longer talk to her but nor do I care. I am 17. He's a gimp, "AWW I LOVE YOU BAH BAH" and is going on about marriage, she's 15 and he's 17....and one of the reasons she didn't want me back because she didnt have me whipped. She has him whipped.
2007-07-25 18:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants her cake and eat it too. Find someone that doesn't want to spend time with another man. If you are serious about someone the only person that she will want to be with is Y.O.U.. This girl doesn't just want you and you will find yourself pissed off because she will start trying to find ways to go out with her girlfriends.( Actually she will be with her other boyfriends)
2007-07-25 18:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by Husband 1st Kids 2nd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your friends job to tell u, at least he is doing his duty of being your friend by telling u, ur gf is being a total *****, dump her *** and move on to someone better.
2007-07-25 18:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not being too sensitive at all. Best advice I can give ya is to move on. There is no true relationship here. Sorry to have to say it.
2007-07-25 18:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋