what can you do if your worried about being percieved as a psychopath because you ask questions on here?

Question

relating to your problems and mental health concerns?
i worry ill be percieved as a nut or a psycho, a person to be steered clear from...and plus if i have haters outthere, this is how theyll want me to be percieved, so im kept down and people stay away from me..
i only seek to find the answers and overcome my mental turmoils...im 30 and have suffered alot of bullying and abuse and victimization in my life...i now have borderline personality disorder im trying to deal with...and sometimes i think, i have persecutors, just like i did in the past growing up, who would want me to be percieved this way by the rest of society...

i mean if i seek to be loved and accepted, cherished and to conform...will how i present myself to folks on here prevent that from happening...do you see?

Answer 1

gosh, I don't mean to be intrusive but you don't seem at all that way, you seem like an nagel of a person & don't ever think of urself that way becos u r not! never...
& although I've said this b4, I have been in a very similiar situation myself & I know exactly what you mean, they're the psychos, not us...they have just found an easy target to take out all their problems on...
don't worry, what goes around, comes around & one day it'll catch up with them & they'll pay for this.
keep praying to God to keep you safe from all harm & if you belive in these things,ask the white light of the Holy Spirit to surround & protect you (it has helped me so much, please just say this prayer,even if u don't belive it right noe, you'll be amazed..you have nothing to lose by trying)!

Answer 2

I doubt many people know who the fellow posters here are off the boards. You could always make another name and use it to ask other questions and then use this one only to answer mental health questions. Oh and who gives a rats %^& what people think of you?

Answer 3

Why would they? You haven't exhibited any classic symptoms of a person who is a phsycopath at all..I just think that if you are trying to meet people, that you should try to either take their advice,..or not talk about it so much...it doesn't seem to be doing you any good, to keep asking I don't think....have you gotten anything from it at all? just wondering.

Answer 4

You need to stop running in your head and jump on the train with the rest of us psychos on Y/A.

If the ride is too wild, your local neighborhood therapist will get you out of your head.. Of course, he/she is likely on a similar train. And neither one of you is the engineer.

Answer 5

I don't fear the people on here as I've never met any of them, and it is much less personal, though I will not have anybody watching over my shoulder. I struggle more talking to people to face and wondering what they are thinking about me.

Answer 6

The good news is that this is a safe place to get answers where no one knows who you are. Use it to get answers and advice to help you heal. No one here knows who you are...and even if they met you later, they wouldn't know that you were the one who asked the question. I think it's safe. I ask all my wild, embarrassing questions here too.

Answer 7

**** society. You have problems. You should be able to get help. That's why this website is here, that's why this section is here. Lots of people are in the same situation as you.

Answer 8

Just ask your question and let the chips fall where they may. Don't worry about it. You'll never see these people in your lifetime anyhow. (not usually, anyway)

Answer 9

I could care less if people on Y/A's think I'm a psychopath. I have my own little world and Y/A's people are not invited.

Answer 10

well at least your talking about it its the guys who dont talk that get me worried and its not like im going too bump into you at the grocery store and say hay arent you that psyco on ya answers ya know?