So I met a guy on the weekend who is from the same hometown as me. We got along great and ended up spending the night together. I don't have one night stands on a regular basis, but there was something about him. From previous experience when I would fool around with guys, they're always awkward in the morning, want to go home, not talk to you again, not cuddle and hold your hand in front of his friends, etc.
Not this guy..he's so different. He did all those things. He bought me breakfast the next morning, wants me to call him, held my hand in front of his friends, drove me home, and wants me to come visit him sometime (he lives about 2 1/2 hrs away)
I haven't called him but we have had a few texting conversations and I have him on facebook.
I actually really like him. Could he be interested in more? Or is he just one of those really nice guys?
2007-07-25 08:48:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm going to try to visit him in about 2 weeks. Should I tell him that I am coming especially to see him? Or should I say I'm visiting other friends and see if he just wants to hang out one night. I do actually have other friends in that city.
2007-07-25 08:49:39 · update #1
well it seems to me like he really likes you...if it was nothing but a hook-up...he sure wouldnt want to show you off to his friends and stuff...and there would be no texting...if i was you...i'd call him and just tell him your planning on comming down in a few weeks...and ask him if he wants to hang out...see what he says!!! good luck!!!
2007-07-25 08:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by MiZz SaAk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At times, we go by the rules. But in love, we should always take risks and follow our heart that tells us the way to happiness. As in any risks, what is there to lose when at the end you both made each other happy. Seize the moment, it is ok if a woman gives a gift nowadays and drive to meet a man since schedules are not so flexible nowadays as most are busy living in this high standard of living they call bay area. Feel him again, togetherness brings you closer to each other. Afterwards, your body will tell you from the signs he gives or not if he is the one or not to be wasting time for. There is no wasted time if the feeling of togetherness makes you complete as a woman, balances your hormones and makes life worth living for.. connie motherhealth@gmail.com
2007-07-25 15:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by connie d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are going to see some friends but you'd really like to come see him as well and spend some time together if that would be ok with him. If he says yes then ask him to pick a spot or two in the city that he loves to show you. That will let him know that your not just comming for the sex but are interested in spending time with him as well as getting to know what he likes and is interested in.
2007-07-25 15:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is horrible! All girls know that you can't *gasp* be INTO the guys you sleep with! You have to be cold and callous, only get emotionally involved with ******* who treat you badly, and keep all those wretched nice boys who care for you at arms distance.
My advice to you is to sleep with his best friends, pretending that you were never really dating, while at the same time jeoulously nagging him about all his exgirlfriends and female friends as if you actually were dating. That will like, totally confuse him, and the more sexual partners you have at once, the better the chance is you can contract an STD like AIDS.
Yay, AIDS! First person to get ghonnoreah wins!
2007-07-25 15:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by Pledge_or_Die 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't tell him you're going just to see him. Mention it in a text or something. See how he responds.
If you're really interested in him, make sure you find a way to tell him you're not a whore, that you can't believe you would do that, and how relieved you are that he didn't treat you like one.
I had a relationship for about 10 months with a guy, when I thought it was a one nighter. Anything is possible!
Good luck sweetie!
2007-07-25 15:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by belle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading your story that all sounds great. But remember you just met him and are pretty much unsure. It is kinda hard for me to spend the night with someone and then take them seriously, but since you feel the way you do take the chance and tell him how you feel. The most he can do is tell you other wise. OR just try to spend some alone time and see how he acts just the two of you. and GOOD LUCK.
2007-07-25 15:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I wanted to see him again--and I was interested in sex--I would call him and say that I would be in town, could I stay over.
If I wasn't sure About the sex, I would I was going to be in town, would you like to get together. I f yes, then I would book a nice hotel. That way if nothing happened I would have a nice place to go back too. If something did happen I would have a nice place to take him to.
2007-07-25 16:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are becoming involved in a long distance relationship and this never really was a "one night stand" As with all relationships some last and some do not. If you do decide to continue with it, remember trust and communication are very important in relationships, especially when you are not together much.
2007-07-25 15:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by Willy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your coming out to see friends but would liek to see him and see his reaction. He might be a really nice guy or he might like you so take the chance. If he doesn't seem interested in meeting up with you then you know he really doesnt want anything serious and it was a one nighter.
Good luck...
2007-07-25 15:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if he likes you for more , but sounds like he sure liked the sex. So what is the problem if you like the sex then go back for more. Who knows you may end up falling in love, getting married, having 2.3 kids together. Or you may end up having some great sex together. either way sounds like a win win situation to me.
2007-07-25 15:55:19 · answer #10 · answered by regina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋